4 months without PMO: An update

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by AtomicTango, Oct 28, 2018.

  1. AtomicTango

    AtomicTango Fapstronaut

    Today I hit four months on my streak and I just wanted to make a quick update post.

    I'll be honest, not much of what I said last time has changed, with one major difference and one minor difference.I'll start with the major.

    In the last month or so, my fetishes and unwanted sexual urges have definitely started properly fading, I mean, they were fading before but still very prevalent if that makes sense, like as long as I ignored them they wouldn't bother me but once triggered it would cause problems. Now, even the strongest of potential triggers have very little effect on me and I think I am a month or two away from past fetishes being outright gone as long as I keep doing what I'm doing. Literally the only thing that sets off proper fetishistic urges is when I get chaser effect from wet dreams, but even thats not as bad as it was.

    The more minor thing is I do feel myself becoming slowly, very very slowly, more attracted to women as time passes. I dont really have much more to say about that other than I've noticed it, may as well mention it. I hope that as time goes on these things will start to get even more noticeable.

    Anyway guys, thats all I wanted to say, I'll probably do another update at the 6 month mark, so see you then, and good luck to everyone in the meantime.
     
  2. idontwanttoreveal

    idontwanttoreveal Fapstronaut

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    Congrats man, you deserve it!
    I think it is okay to have fetishes - without being harmful and we all have sexual urges. Our nature inclines us to have them. So instead of fighting them try understanding and figuring them out, if they are on the positive or the negative side.
    Life isn´t about having all these extreme fetishes or fantasying all day long, but whenever it is in a healthy way I would support it.
    I´m saying this because suppressing everything might depress you, so you can anticipate that and try thinking about why you developed them in the first place.
    Best of luck!
     
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  3. Meditation Monk

    Meditation Monk Fapstronaut

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    Nice bro, it is good to hear that you have reached your milestones.
     
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  4. SirErnest

    SirErnest Fapstronaut

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    Great post. Thanks man.
     
  5. AtomicTango

    AtomicTango Fapstronaut

    Well I'm talking about porn induced fetishes that were definitely not there before I started watching porn, thats why I want to get rid of them, same with unwanted sexual urges. I cant really move into a stage where I have a healthy sexuality until I've sorted this out first, which is why I am giving it so much attention and focus.
     
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  6. AtomicTango

    AtomicTango Fapstronaut

    Thank you for the support!
     
  7. AtomicTango

    AtomicTango Fapstronaut

    You are welcome, thank you for the kind words!
     
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