420 days without masturbation or porn

To my fellow NoFappers,
I am writing this forum today to inform you that I succeeded my goal of quitting masturbation + porn for forever. I have never felt more alive and socially connected with my friends than ever. I realised I am more open minded and always up for new challenges. One of the things I realised when I was blinded by porn is that I believed I was lonely. When truly, I was not.

What makes me join NoFap at the first place is to experience a new perspective for my life. I remembered how much was an addict I was to porn that I dont stop thinking about it. Waking up, porn. Eating breakfast, porn. Riding a bus, porn. and PORN PORN PORN. I remembered one time I have a sexual arousal on my English Teacher who was OLD AF.

What really got me through all this pain and stray from comfort of masturbation is Perserverance. I know it corny to say it, but truly it is. I realised that quitting porn isnt about stopping masturbation in one go and if you fails, you have weak wills and forever deemed as a loser. No. I learnt that it not about succeeding with perfection, but to succeeds with failing multiple times till you dont aroused by porn anymore. That mental cap when you dont get aroused or think about porn constantly, even when you doing your ENGLISH EXAM, is real.

Nevertheless, I passed 420+ days and decided to watch porn again. And truly, it dissapointed me. It was actually a disgrace on what I thought was fantasy back then. Now looking back on random porn searches + selected porn searches, aka just girls that good-looking, it is just nothing for me anymore.

I know NNN already started and I expects that someone who participating NNN is reading this article right now feeling tempted to masturbate and returns to his/her old lifestyle, complaining why they so "depressed" and moody. All I have to say is to fight through it. I know how challenging it is to do but I did on what I am proud today, just take my words and believe in yourself;

"Yesterday's me was still me. No matter how much mistakes I made, it still me. But it through my perservance to fight through it that makes me who I want to be."

FYI, if you want to be where I am right now, put it in the effort and pain now, for freedom and comfort of tommorow.
* If any of you guys who have any questions, please dont be hestitate to ask right away. I willing to help you guys to change your lifestyle and habits.

N N N FIGHTERS === FIGHTING

Truly,
G502 Spectrum

 

Thank you my brother! I hopes your journey is filled with success of what your ultimate goal/s is ...

 

This one is quite a hard question. I started back in August 2018, even though I was still not watching porn and masturbates, I do have a short period of time where I was addicted to having sex (links back to old habit). It was hard considered how my flashbacks on Porn makes me feel more tempted of trying different positions, roles, and overall, "porn-acting." It was during exam days that made me quit it all.

If you think about it, masturbating with porn is the same thing as having sex: To experience what it like to strokes some pretty girl from behind and trying to makes yourself pleasurable. So having sex was alike to masturbation but however, it easier to resists the temptation than actual porn.

Yes actually. When you not physically and mentally drained by the after result of cumming constantly, your mental and physical health improved by tenfolds. I was more energetic to do things. More determined to try difficultier challenges or things I have not have experience with. And you'll becomes more physically active.

 

Thank you my man!