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431 days no PMO, semen retention while having sex

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by modern milarepa, Jul 4, 2021.

  1. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    I read the book I mentioned 4 days prior to having sex and never before in my life I searched anything related to sex. And the first time I did it I was pretty good, sex is no that hard even animals can do it without a guide.
     
  2. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    If you programm yourself to failure you'll fail.

    What is life without a challenge?
     
  3. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    Girls are not going to sleep with a man who pity himself or has doubts of his sexual skill.

    There is something a woman can't forgive and that is a mediocre lover. You simply can't fail. You need to find the way to overcome it or simply keep complaining in a page full of incels and go mgtow
     
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  4. Karnakavach555

    Karnakavach555 Fapstronaut

    How do u move energy inside the body, visualizing the Microcosmic orbit or any other pathway?
    How do u store energy, where do u store it...or spreading it through out the body?

    By the by, u r blessed to have a father who knows and experienced all this. Keep exploring and improving yourself...
     
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  5. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    Do you mean during sex or in meditation?

    Well it doesn't matter they are the same.
    Moving energy is a natural phenomenon the energy moves naturally by a result of good energy storage and balanced energy.

    First you focus in the dan tien or four fingers below the belly, when you can really feel a lot of energy and that is balanced at this point, then you move it. This can take some days, weeks or few months.

    At some point the energy naturally would like to move and is so strong and balanced that it can so it. If you don't have good meditation and a decent streak you won't have energy to move.

    You can use the microcosmic orbit to use it as a path to start moving the energy. the energy moves here if there is an energy blockage the energy will stay naturally in this place for a while then it will keep going.

    Sometimes it could move to a different part of your body than the microcosmic orbit so let the energy go there.

    After a while the energy will probably need to expand beyond the microcosmic to the macrocosmic orbit so you do that instead.

    Have a theoretical knowledge of the two orbits to use as a path of your energy. But mostly just let the energy move freely. It's a very organic process.
     
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  6. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    Moving the energy: visualization or just feeling it. Sometimes I feel and see male energy as color red in my back and blue cold in the front being female energy. Using colors to start can be good to reinforce the meditation. Later on you are more sensitive to energy so you can skip visualization of colors to starts its very useful.

    You store energy in the dan tien:four fingers below the navel.
     
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  7. Karnakavach555

    Karnakavach555 Fapstronaut

    It is wonderful that u can feel and see energy. That opens a lot of opportunities.
     
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  8. JohnSmith1979

    JohnSmith1979 Fapstronaut

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    I originally began my journey 5 days ago to quit PM. I figured hard mode would be unfair to my wife, but this thread has given me something to seriously consider. As long her needs are met that is most important. I don't need to ejaculate to do so. In the long run it may be very helpful for me and her if I avoided it at least for awhile.
     
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  9. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    It'll be also helpful for you. It'll help you to cure more fast the damage caused by porn, it'll rewire your brain and your perception of sex.

    Do it as therapy, mediation forget about sensual enjoyment.
     
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  10. InnerMan

    InnerMan Fapstronaut

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    This is what ive done for the past 6 months or so. No complaints from wife. Sex is better and lasts longer. You just have to have the self control to avoid ejaculating. A little tough at first but you get used to it.
     
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