By far, the worst advice spread on internet. People that said this don't know nothing about attraction.
Oh, and you think you know everything, do you? Given you're probably only interested in casual sex and short-term relationships, you seem to think all girls will sleep with you just because you're especially quick-off-the-mark and want to get to the pants-dropping orgies straight away. Not all girls like to be rushed like that, some (I’d like to think a lot) of them actually want to get to know a person before going out with them, let alone sleeping with them. Unlike you I am looking for a more in-depth connection, and am saving my virginity for a girl I'm sure will remain loyal to me.
This approach almost always get you in friendzone and asking what happened when she start dating other guy that she just met. This is the typical nice guy approach and the guy that fear rejection.
Only if you don't show flirting once you've built up a rapport with her. If you do make the effort to show her you are interested in her as something more while getting to know her initially, then you're showing you're not afraid to pursue what you want, and if she reacts well to said flirting, that's the moment to ask her out.
Additionally I don't fear rejection. I know what I want. I simply wish to build up a relationship with a girl at my own pace, because I want to make sure a girl has attractive enough personality as well as looks before I start dating her, and if a girl decides to callously 'friendzone' me and date someone else just because I went at the pace I'm comfortable with, I know when to move on and look for someone who treats me with the respect I deserve and has a more careful and discerning mindset.
This is what movies teach us to do, but in real life it doesn't work.
You say this but you always talk about women only being attracted to you in the first minute or two of you getting to know her - 'love at first sight' is also usually only seen in films. Indeed it's one of the goofiest and least-believable tropes around.
I know several couples in the real world who started out as friends for a year or more and then started dating after that, my parents for one. If you really knew that much about attraction then my mother would have friendzoned my father and I wouldn't be here, yet here I am, challenging your narrow-minded views, and they have been together for over 30 years. Additionally, lots of other people seem to agree with me - more couples get together this way than you think, according to this new article:
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeand...f-couples-start-out-as-friends-research-finds
Looks like you need to broaden your mind a bit before advising other men what they should do.
If a woman is attracted to you, you just need to not be a creep and she is going to be totally comfortable with you.
Let me guess, you're probably a super-good-looking-hunk aren't you? Well not everyone is like you and can attract the easy girls at the drop of a hat. I'm an ordinary-looking mortal man who actually has to work to show women I am a good long-term partner material, by getting to know them, respecting them and showing I am a good and kind, strong and confident person. If a girl likes me for that, wonderful, she's likely the one for me, if not, then it's her loss.
Every good relationship grows from dating casually, going out with each other and having fun (outside and inside the beddroom). If both are a good match then this will naturally get more serious over time and maybe end up in a relationship.
Taking the friends route first is going to get you a lot of female friends, taking the route of going after what you want, and date rigth from the start the woman you like, is going to be more effective to get woman and posibilty find one to have a relationship.
This may work with some girls. Certainly it'll work with the girls who just want short-term fucks. But these are not worth my interest. The only way I will find the right girl is to build a relationship first, from platonic to romantic, and only when the girl in question has proven her loyalty and developed a strong bond with me, will she and I make love, to strengthen and deepen that connection.
That is the civilised and conscientious way to do things, and something that has been forgotten by many in this wretched, degenerate world, but not all.
@modern milarepa don't be afraid of going after what you want, but also do what is comfortable for you, otherwise it will show as lack of confidence, and don't be afraid to buck the trend and change your dating mindset to a more respectable and honourable one. What works for
@p1n1983 doesn't necessarily work for all men, particularly those looking for a long-term relationship.
