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476 days fappers hate this simple trick

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by modern milarepa, Aug 19, 2021.

  1. Well you see pretty clear. But this was not meant so much as an attack as disrespect from my side.
    I respect streak and intelligence but it just seemed like MM had orgasm without semen and counted is and non-orgasm. Maybe I'm wrong.

    However man I understand you. I once was on 340 no PM and 276 PMO streak and talked to one Christian girl about that I dont understand how guys who go to church every day and are still addicted to porn. For me, it seemed so easy to hold a streak. But she said that people are weak.
    Fast forward I started to visit the church every week that summer and relapsed every week and couldn't pick myself up. Then one winter moorning Sunday I relapsed and went to church like always, and in the way I understood that God have made me to understand those weak guys who go o church and still pmo. It lifted up my mood and I felt like I understand God's plan for me. That helped to stay clean for 2 months. But what really helped you can read in this topic -

    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/a-year-clean-waited-this-for-3-yeaaars.278988/

    Read all the replies man.
     
  2. Well, I'm not a saint and even his morning had been thinking non-Christian thoughts. But what helps is putting God first and having those high moral standards in Bible and trusting my sexual life completely to God. That is one thing that is managed by God.
    Of course, there are catholic priests who have been doing worse things than unbelievers, and I can see that happening after years of celibacy if God loses His first place in someone's life. Cause it's easy to stay clean but not always easy to be a Christian and follow Jesus. Right now taliban are killing Christians who have Bible apps in their phones. Thank God we are not living in such a country but have freedom in our faith. However, those days might come globally where one has to choose eternal life or temporary life by denying the faith.
    In the end all Glory to God. Without His grace and His sacrifice on the cross, I'm nothing, living of on Gods immeasurable mercy and neverending love. All that's good in people are from God and all that's bad is the natural evil nature of humans given by the devil. The Fight is lifelong.
     
  3. determined99

    determined99 Fapstronaut

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    Are you always able to do so?
     
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  4. iamShinra

    iamShinra Fapstronaut

    Dude Check out his recent posts He Practices Non Ejaculatory Sex.
     
  5. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    Not karezza, I do tantric and taoist sex. As a form of meditation sex. No ejaculation. I can have multiorgasms too without ejaculation, but I refrain from this too.

    You are virgin right?
    We talk a lot about this before. Because it seems you don't think it's possible to have sex and not ejaculate. I don't see other explanation of me telling you the same in every post I make.

    Or you don't understand english very well?
     
  6. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    This thread is not about religion, or if sex is olny for making babies. I simply explain how I manage with my own experience to control lust. And have the streak I have.

    If your religion is against any type of sex, you believe celibacy is the high way. You want yo talk about religion then I encourage you to go to the site dedicated to Christianity or the religion you preach.

    Also what I'm writing is not very appropriate for what your moralistic views and religion preaches then simply don't read it.

    I don't what this thread to become a religious argumentative battle.

    NOFAP is not a religious site.
     
  7. ermia

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    Can masturbation be performed without ejaculation? Or does it still have destructive effects such as addiction?
    please explain this , i had masturbation without ejaculate but after some day I can not control myself and I ejaculate..
     
  8. Ubermen

    Ubermen Fapstronaut

    This is a good point. Temporary physical abstinence does not mean that the mind has given up desire for it.
     
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  9. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    There is a meditation masturbation in order to balance sexual energy, but I advice only after 150 or more days streak because it requieres to have some self control and a reservoir of energy. You can't ejaculate or have any type of fantasy.

    It's not edging.

    For what you have told, you don't seem ready for it. Forget about your penis for a while and focus in making a decent streak.

    This is a thread I made about it

    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/masturbation-can-be-very-healthy-this-is-how.311195/
     
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  10. Really great post. This has exactly been my struggle my whole life. Leading to porn addiction from not managing to get the girls i wanted or having failed short term relationships to eventually choosing a wrong women due to wrong view. And now im paying the fucking price. Financially, emotionally, mentally, spiritually and even physically.

    So Semen Retention it is for me. Most likely permanent. I have always been a spiritual person but only now realized what was truly holding me back even after so much spiritual study, meditation, excercise and general self-improvement.

    Semen retention truly acts as a veil that is being lifted. You start to truly experience reality as it is without being confused by lust or the negative effects of pmo on your mind and emotions.
     
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  11. As I understand then tantric sex you do involves orgasm too.
    I believe that you can have sex without wasting seed, but usually no one have sex without having O, even if it's dry orgasm.
     
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  12. Starchild5x

    Starchild5x Fapstronaut

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    But when you are a good,loving,loyal & supportive girl its hard to find a loyal man! One who still loves you when you lose weight and doesn't look to Internet porn & naked dating sites,looking only to satisfy his sexual needs & causing PIED and heartbreak
     
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  13. Starchild5x

    Starchild5x Fapstronaut

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    This sounds like you think a womans only value is sex! I hate how porn destroys the image of a true woman
     
  14. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    I think for women lust is not so much a problem to see a man for what he is, it's different for a girl. If she suffered in the past, then traumas can make difficult to see the man she has in front of him for what he really is, or come to conclusions that all men are the same.

    Also women rely too much on memory they meet a couple or even one single man and they can see some traits he has and if they see another man with similar qualities they almost think this other man is the same as the other guy with similar qualities, so it could lack a dept in analysis.

    Also in general women have good intuition to see people for what they truly are, but it's no infallible and many times their intuition is not so great.

    Even do women think a lot and analyze a lot, sometimes traumas and an overreliance on memory and lack of dept in analysis mixed with an overconfidence in their intuition can cloud their thinking.

    But then again every girl is different and has her own skills and flaws.

    Also see people as individuals, not generalize men, everyone is different. Don't let past experiences make you see the world and men with dark glasses over your eyes.
     
  15. Which country do you belong to?
    This all knowledge of what you are sharing is of Eastern Cultures.
     
  16. llortaton

    llortaton Fapstronaut

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    So, I can just look at a photo and just analyze parts of it. For example, hair texture and color, eye color, nose, lips, etc?
     
  17. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    It's possible a person appereance can show or reveal part of her energy, especially the eyes.
     
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  18. Something I want to learn, but can it be done through tantric and semen retention courses etc?
     
  19. Starchild5x

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    I did have past traumas but this didn't make me not see the real man,it made me want to be loved so much I put up with a level of disrespect that I shouldn't,I've also learned I shouldn't judge people by my own standards,not everyone has a kind heart! I've spent half my life with this man nearly 20years and I don't know how to not love him but it seems to be at the detriment to my own confidence & mental wellbeing,for 15years he was fine only having me & his porn use over the last 5yrs has caused so much pain & completely ruined the intimacy we had,he won't talk about it or admit he has pied or any issue regarding porn,everytime I catch him out he says he's not going to do it again (as well as been angry and dismissive that I've brought it up) he stops for abit but keeps going back! Iam sick of feeling not good enough,lonely,unloved & angry at all the half dressed women absolutely everywhere,I've never felt like that towards other girls.not sure I can even do this anymore
     
  20. Starchild5x

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    This is true,iam not the prettiest girl (my nose is big) but the rest of me is & I find the men that usually like me say "there's just something about you" I get told my eyes are very pretty & once hugged a friend & had an instant erection & said it was my energy!
     

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