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5 days streak for the first time

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Urucansan, Oct 17, 2019.

  1. Urucansan

    Urucansan Fapstronaut

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    Hi guys, i am new to the nofap practice, i am a 26 years old boxer. The first 2 times i tried to nofap and avoid PMO i failed both times to the 3th day. Today is the first time i reach 5 days in a row :)
    I surely had an addiction to porn, but i want stop for 2 main reasons, first because i feel more stronger and full of energies during these days, Boxe is important for me, feeling stronger thanks to this practice is amazing :D
    Second reason, but not less important is because i always been introvert and shy with women, i am tired of being alone, i feel more self confident and i would like to keep going untill i will be able to talk more with women...

    It's not easy to keep going honestly, even if i don't release, happened to watch porn without touching for a few minutes recently... but i will try my best, i want to change something about my life.
     
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  3. rafael33

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    It just happened? Come on. You made the decision to watch porn. Sometimes we need some clarity to change our life. The NO PMO journey is not easy but worth the effort. Good luck!
     
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  4. Urucansan

    Urucansan Fapstronaut

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    Yes, but it wasn't really porn, herotic manga... i have some kind of passion to these things haha
    I just don't want to touch my self while reading these, even if i don't release, i feel pain on my balls later, i will try to don't touch at all from now.
    About porn, it's easy for me to don't watch them, i am not very used to porn
     
  5. Urucansan

    Urucansan Fapstronaut

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    On my way to day 4 again, i am close...
    Guys, my desires to relapse are getting hard, but i will resist, i have to...
    What are your tips?
     
  6. Suk

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    Hello, Welcome brother. I hope you have stopped reading erotic mangas as being horny for a long time(subjective) and not dumping your load causes Blue balls.That's the pain you feel in your balls later so gather your will power and go hard mode! Stay strong ...All the best!
     
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  7. Urucansan

    Urucansan Fapstronaut

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    Thank you for the message, i haven't stop reading them, but i am making some progress:

    . Reading for just a few minutes per day, not hours

    . Not touching myself while reading

    I am close to day 4, i will do my best...
     
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  8. Urucansan

    Urucansan Fapstronaut

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    Already day 5, i have blue balls probably guys, i think i have to stop...
    Mentally, i can't stop thinking about sex or everything about it, phisically i have a pain to my testicles and feeling like all my genital area is on fire.
    The frustration is more than the energize feeling now
     
  9. Suk

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    Stop reading erotic mangas or you will not stop thinking about sex...be soo busy in your life that you don't get time to think about these things, workout as it will help you get tired and you won't feel like masturbating at night....overall stay strong! You can do it!
     
  10. Urucansan

    Urucansan Fapstronaut

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    Yes, it's true, just reading a manga, playing a videogame,or during a research on social apps, it happens often to get stimulated...
    The real problem is that in hard mode, for a person like me, the frustration is really high, doing nofap in normal mode while having sex would be really easier if i could.
    But in this way, i accumulate too much frustration, that's why i start going in apps like Tinder, instagram or reading hero mangas.
    Eliminating everything plus my lonely stress, it will accumulate too much frustration after 4-5 days.

    I want to try again,maybe i will fail again, but is always better than relapsing everyday like the old times. i can keep myself more busy, going more to the gym (i have to anyway, i want to become stronger for the future matches awaitings)
     
  11. Suk

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    Trust me i have a SO and i love her a lot, she changed my life and i still can say that it doesn't matter if your single, lonely or taken as NoFap is just like quitting any other addictions and mood swings are just a part of it...that's the challenge you have to face to be victorious..stay strong and you will do it, if you feel frustrated do something to relax, listen to soothing music ie keep yourself engaged in something takes your mind off these things, overall stay strong and you will win!
     
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