6 months nofap today - trans P

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  1. Believe007

    Believe007 Fapstronaut

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    Today is the day where I have made it through 6 months of nofap.

    My genre of P was (and still is as I’m not there yet) trans/sissy/cross dressers which for a heterosexual male is quite difficult to work out why the attraction exists.

    There have been temptations along the way but for now I have resisted them. I know I would still get really aroused if I did watch trans P today so my nofap journey continues.

    The way I have approached this is not to think of the 90/100/180 days (or any other target). I just try and get through 7 days at a time, week to week, Saturday to Saturday. That way keeps the goal of getting through a week manageable. If I have a tough Saturday or Sunday (when I have most free time) I just try and set my sights on making it to Wednesday. If I make it to Wednesday I can then make it to Saturday.

    When a week is completed I think of the counter being reset to zero (although I don’t actually reset it) to try and get another 7 days and repeat. Before you know it you’ve got quite a few days accumulated.

    I still have a high level of attraction to trans so that remains the work on for now.

    Next goal is to make it through the next 7 days and repeat that until I hit 200 days. Hopefully then onto 225 and 250.
     
  2. Supination

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    Congratulations mate!! 180 days is crazy!!
    Keep up the good work and eventually the desire and the attraction for trans porn will fade away!
     
  3. porrada

    porrada Fapstronaut

    Setting these short term milestones works really well also for me. Keep it up!
     
  4. Might_Stag_Beetle

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    Congrats on 180 days. That’s a great accomplishment
     
  5. Hadrian3

    Hadrian3 Fapstronaut

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    I tried this and it seems it helps. Thanks.
     
  6. WeShallNotFap

    WeShallNotFap Fapstronaut

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    Gz bro!
    But to be honest i dont think you will stop this attraction to shemales, is what u ended up liking and its ok!!
     
  7. elvagoazul

    elvagoazul Fapstronaut

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    I'm also will go week after week.
    Thanks for posting!
     
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  9. SeekingLife

    SeekingLife Fapstronaut

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    Any updates on your journey?
     
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  10. Hadrian3

    Hadrian3 Fapstronaut

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    Beautiful username...
     
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  11. Believe007

    Believe007 Fapstronaut

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    Made it through to 245....which is today! Just keep trying to hit 7 days and go Saturday to Saturday, the streak then takes care of itself.

    Since I reached 180 days I did end up in a chat room but came to my senses and it didn’t lead to PMO thankfully. It was a timely reminder how one can get caught up in things quickly. The attraction to trans still remains and had a fairly erotic dream a few days ago about an encounter with one.

    For now, onwards for another 7 days and repeat....275 midterm goal and 300 hopefully after that!
     
  12. Asgardian36

    Asgardian36 Fapstronaut

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    bro! This is such an interesting approach! Goodjob! May you make it to 200 days and beyond!
     
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  13. Johnhello

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    Hey just wanted to clarify are you saying that you’ll reach 7 days and bust and then do another 7 days... or are you talking like a mind game with yourself to just try make 7 days at a time? Thnx
     
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  14. Believe007

    Believe007 Fapstronaut

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    When I started nofap, I wanted to do a week, 7 days. I made it so continued with NoFap for another 7 days (14 days total of nofap). I just continue in that way. It’s a way I find helpful to break making a long streak down into a realistic short term goal of 7 days at a time. Today is 252 days of nofap. All broken down into 7 day chunks to help me get here. It’s the focus on what’s in front of you not the horizon approach, eventually you reach the horizon and then set your sights on another target.
     
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  15. Maybe you don't need to work on it, maybe you are just attracted to trans women. Of course, if you think that is a bad thing you could always try suppressing it, but I think acceptance is more healthy in the long run.
     
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  16. WeShallNotFap

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    This attraction towards gay people its confusing to me. I hate gay men, really enjoy lesbians and I do like real feminine trans woman, just for sex though. What i do about this? Nothing! When i wanna have sex with a trans girl i pay for it, so it would be confidential, no one is gonna know about it. I think you should do the same if you really into....
     
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  17. ANewMe97

    ANewMe97 Fapstronaut

    You're right. But why you use the word "hate"? I'm not gay, i'm straight, but i don't hate gay people. You Shall Not Hate man.
     
  18. ANewMe97

    ANewMe97 Fapstronaut

    100% agree. There isn't nothing bad in that. If you like trans girl... maybe it is because they are hot? It's not a problem, i'm attracted to, the real fact that i wanna to focus on is, in the real world, the world of everyday, you ever seen one that arouse you? Me, never, only girls have this power. It's the porn man, in reality you'll seen a few feminine shemale that's seems a real woman. In many cases, the "normal shemales" are more masculine. It's the truth.
     
  19. Icouldprobablyhelp

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    yes he will he just has to tell his self how gross it is.. it's psychological start with positive affirmations that you've written down and repeat em daily don't let porn tell you wat you like.. it's like the devil on your shoulders suggestion smh you can overcome this.. tell your self how much you love hot attractive women and that your an alpha male and you do the banging an so on.. write down everything you love about women and let those be your thoughts.. if anything write down wat you hate about t porn an stuff how it honestly makes you feel.. it's OK to get boners an stuff eventually you'll learn to control them an get hard or soft when you want especially with the right minds tate... sorry this post was so long
     
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  20. Icouldprobablyhelp

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    so you do anal?
    so you do anal, is that better than the vagina? and what is your longest NoFap no porn streak and are you currently still on a streak? and also how did you kno you like dudes that dress up as girls? and what do you think about when banging them? sorry of it's alot of questions but really want to know how your mind works
     

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