6 months of nofap. 27 years old. i'm bisexual?????

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Awolnation28, Feb 21, 2017.

  1. Awolnation28

    Awolnation28 Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys.

    6 months of nofap has past recently. and i had a revelation yesterday.

    i think i'm bisexual. how did i make it to 27 years old without realizing this?

    and now because of this realization i have some major questions i need your opinions on.

    People of nofap. please help me if you can.

    so number one concern is. i'm at 6 months of nofap. and my plan was to get a solid, loyal, loving girlfriend.

    so now that i think i'm bisexual. obviously i'd like to go out and experience a guy.

    my concern is that i'm at a very important part of my recovery. my brain is rewiring to default settings!!

    i'm worried that if i go out with a guy. my brain will rewire to men!! i don't want that to happen. i want to rewire to my true defaults. whatever that is.

    is that a valid concern? i feel like i anymore attracted to woman so i could just continue on that path. but obviously with this recent realization i would like to try a guy.

    also MY second concern. is that maybe the only reason i like guys right now is because of my lack of results with woman? is that possible? during nofap i've made a ton of girls who are friends but have had NO luck with my sex life.

    am i actually bisexual or is my brain just resorting to the next avalaible option?

    it feels like i'm not AT ALL attracted physically at all! but emotionally i get attached. (my whole life has been like this) no physical attraction but emotionally i like he guy.

    and with woman. i'm extremely physically attracted but emotionally not as much.

    i'm so confused! don't know what to do. any thoughts or opinions would be great.

    focusing on my main two questions.
     
  2. Awolnation28

    Awolnation28 Fapstronaut

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    spelling mistake :

    im extremely attracted to woman so maybe i should just stick on that path until i'm rewired?
     
  3. Gregtootall

    Gregtootall Fapstronaut

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    You are rewiring your brain to have sex with a person. Not a girl or a guy, a person. So don't be scared and do what feels natural.
     
  4. Solidium

    Solidium Fapstronaut

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    You shoutld try with ladies first. If that don't work, take the other option.
     
  5. HappyDaysAreHereAgain

    HappyDaysAreHereAgain Fapstronaut

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    I am guessing that your brain is willing for you to try anything to get it's hit of dopamine. It can't talk you into PMO, so now it is trying for another quickie solution. A guy would probably go faster than developing a relationship with a female. You could probably get used to that. If you got used to porn, you can flex. Can you convince your brain that you are in charge,and it is not getting any quick shots until you are ready to call the shot.
     

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