60 Days hardmode complete - No P, M, O, or wet dreams

[Sex and Porn Addict]

I have 60 days complete. Have not had a wet dream yet either. I am 35 years old.

Success is due to joining an online support group called "Sex and Porn Addicts Anonymous"

I attend online zoom meetings about 5 days a week and also talk to members on the phone throughout the week. I am also working on the 12 steps with a sponsor and am currently on step 4.

The biggest difference maker has been joining this online group. Before joining SPAA, I would always relapse around day 15, was not able to break this milestone. But after joining SPAA, I have been doing really well.

I also give thanks to God (my higher power), for helping me in this journey. Specifically, I am a Christian, meaning I believe in the power of Jesus. However, I don't attend church regularly.

But I owe this current streak to the SPAA group and also my Higher Power.

Before joining SPAA, I would relapse about 5 times per month. So yes, its true I wasn't a heavy user, but still though, relapsing 5 times a month was hard on my mental and physical health.

The main benefits I feel are just being able to control my emotions better and also not feeling that shameful feeling after just looking at porn videos.

If anyone wants, feel free to ask me any questions.

 

[Harami1992]

I have 60 days complete. Have not had a wet dream yet either. I am 35 years old.

Success is due to joining an online support group called "Sex and Porn Addicts Anonymous"

I attend online zoom meetings about 5 days a week and also talk to members on the phone throughout the week. I am also working on the 12 steps with a sponsor and am currently on step 4.

The biggest difference maker has been joining this online group. Before joining SPAA, I would always relapse around day 15, was not able to break this milestone. But after joining SPAA, I have been doing really well.

I also give thanks to God (my higher power), for helping me in this journey. Specifically, I am a Christian, meaning I believe in the power of Jesus. However, I don't attend church regularly.

But I owe this current streak to the SPAA group and also my Higher Power.

Before joining SPAA, I would relapse about 5 times per month. So yes, its true I wasn't a heavy user, but still though, relapsing 5 times a month was hard on my mental and physical health.

The main benefits I feel are just being able to control my emotions better and also not feeling that shameful feeling after just looking at porn videos.

If anyone wants, feel free to ask me any questions.

Bro I am a member of Sex Addict Anonymous.
Currently struggling with porn and video chat addiction.
Had been sober for 4 years till 2024. But now my condition has got worst.
I need your advice regarding that.
Feel free to ping me .
Waiting for your reply!!!

 

[Sex and Porn Addict]

Bro I am a member of Sex Addict Anonymous.
Currently struggling with porn and video chat addiction.
Had been sober for 4 years till 2024. But now my condition has got worst.
I need your advice regarding that.
Feel free to ping me .
Waiting for your reply!!!

What led to your relapse? Why do you think you are doing it again?

 

[Harami1992]

What led to your relapse? Why do you think you are doing it again?

I got into a new job in a new city. The atmosphere of the new office and other conditions contributed to my frustration along with the family issues leading to my relapse.
Also, before my relapse I wasn't attending meeting for 2 years.
My core addiction earlier was just Porn. But by the time, new addictions getting added up like a pair video chat sex , soft sexual content on YouTube, Insta etc.
Lately, I got addicted to an website namely Chamet which is a video calling website where I get video calls to have Video sex with different women.
In past two months, I have wasted 7-8k just for this app.
Kindly guide me for all of this!!!!!!

 

[Sex and Porn Addict]

I got into a new job in a new city. The atmosphere of the new office and other conditions contributed to my frustration along with the family issues leading to my relapse.
Also, before my relapse I wasn't attending meeting for 2 years.
My core addiction earlier was just Porn. But by the time, new addictions getting added up like a pair video chat sex , soft sexual content on YouTube, Insta etc.
Lately, I got addicted to an website namely Chamet which is a video calling website where I get video calls to have Video sex with different women.
In past two months, I have wasted 7-8k just for this app.
Kindly guide me for all of this!!!!!!

That is a tough situation… I am not really sure how to help…

However, maybe you can start attending meetings again? Or try sex and porn addicts anonymous?

Also, you must really believe what you are doing is bad …

I know for me, after a relapse I feel really bad for multiple days… so this helps me. Maybe this isn’t true for you though…

I guess my tolerance for pain has decreased so am not as willing to relapse

Also, I hate to spend money on sex workers… especially if it’s just over video and not real sex… it’s a ripoff in my opinion. I’m pretty careful with money though and don’t have a whole lot of it… so I could differ on that account too

 

[Harami1992]

Thanks for your words!!!!