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Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Oceanman1, May 23, 2021.
I'm buddhist too
mean urges are energy? and good energy i should use on training
On training or anything productive something that you need to get done
If you live in a different country then I do then we should definitely link up
Yes we live in different countries, we can talk, it can be fun you seem like a cool dude. Send me a private message if you want.
Do you do IF?
What is that "IF" ?
Oh fasting yes I am trying to on a one meal a day thing but its hard resisting food infront of your face, I need more discipline.
How to block p*** on android without using any app...?
I'm not sure, check on youtube but I use an app to block porn
What kind of advice would you give to someone who has just joined NoFap?
Usually what everyone does is count the days. But whenever I count the days I seem to relapse. Give yourself the thought that this will be a lifestyle from now on like brushing your teeth everymornjng you get it done. So don't count the days and give yourself a goal for example I won't have sex until I make my buisness boom in 6 months. Then you will go 6 months working hard.
What also helped tremendously was blocking porn from my phone and staying away from social media.
I agree with all of the advice you've given.
Yeah, what really helped me get to 70+ days was to forget about the NoFap counter (in my case I updated it after I relapsed and took a break from anything NoFap related and it worked!). After around 60 or so days, I felt more confident to stay active in this community. Having NoFap in your head does make you think about pornography and NSFW stuff, quite ironic huh?
I'd also emphasise your point, setting a target like 'making your business boom in 6 months'. We humans need to set ourselves objectives to remain productive and less depressed, we can never truly take a break until we die but that's the fun of life in my opinion.
To be honest, blocking anything had never worked for me as I'd always circumvent the block. Rather, I substituted masturbation with listening to music or something productive instead, and as time passes, not masturbating became a habit.
Thanks for the replies!
Of course bro, best wishes to you and your journey
Can you look at girls on the street or tv without feeling the urges? For example, for me, I discovered the only way I can do nofap is to avoid looking at any girl anywhere (Streets or TV) and just mind my business. Yes, sometimes I might notice a good looking girl with a big ass and when it happens I try to change my mindset to something else so I can forget the image otherwise it will get me tense, aroused, feeling that rush and eventually the urges.
So, I'm mainly concerned is that after x days, let's say 100 / 200 days, will I have to be like this? All times?
Well I think k still do the same thing your doing now, I just try to mind my buisness and not look at a girl or porn or touch myself but yes if I do any of those things the urge I feel is still there. But that's a good thing you do t want to lose for example what if you lose it then you turn gay lol or lose your testosterone lol idk but focusing 100% of your mind intentionally to one thing you want to accomplish will set everything g else aside and you won't have to to do any of this sick porn masturbation shit.