I didn't have time to post yesterday was day one which was pretty easy actually i hope day 2 is like the same 2/7 Goodluck
I didn't have time to post yesterday was day one which was pretty easy actually i hope day 2 is like the same 2/7 Goodluck
Well i failed also a lot, i hate that feeling and I feel miserable. Now I literally cut my hand of, or pulled my eyes out. I can not go alone into the internet, and i dont have an internet device, helped me to recover better, and each time you wont do it, and fight against it, your brain still recovers, even if you relapsed. Do you got a friend you can talk to? That you have less burden in your heart? What helps me is tidy up my rooms, it kindy help me to sort everything in my head. I hope it will get better for you, usually you need to be careful if you say „I understand you“ because, we are not always in the same sitations as others, so i can only say, that i am able to understand a few things, that you are going through. Please dont give up, better is the end of a matter, than its beginning. Better to be patient, than to give up.
Thank you for your post bizzle, kinds motivated me again. I threw away, the possibility to go alone into the internet, and now I am again at day 3. I hope that now I will make it to day 7. thank you. Did you achieve day 7?
No problem, glad to help! Congrats on your day 3! I am on day 6 today. We got hit with snow really bad but I am still going to try to get out of the house, as staying in usually isnt the best way to avoid temptation
Thank you, this is something that I really need to do and by doing this it will get us over the first hurdle and on to the next. We will see 365 days soon bro but for now, I look forward to seeing 7 days for all of us on this challenge.
DAY 5 completed ... - been getting lot of bad thoughts again. wasn't able to resist em like yesterday. hoping tomorrow would be better than today... eta to tango 48 hours... bravo echo zulu prepare for take off
DAY 5 completed ... - been getting lot of bad thoughts again. wasn't able to resist em like yesterday. hoping tomorrow would be better than today... eta to tango 48 hours... bravo echo zulu prepare for take off
Coming up on 7 days - cant remember the last time I went this long without porn or masturbation. No problems thus far. IMO, when you're ready to stop, it's easy to stop. I never tried before. Just enjoyed watching porn and masturbating. I like porn. I like sex. I have a strong libido. But when you finally make the decisions (smoking, porn, masturbation,, etc) you can stop. I watch people try and quit smoking ALL the time and they don't. I smoked for 10 years and kept fooling myself with "trying." Patches, gum, etc. It wasn't until I made the decision to stop, I just stopped. That was 20 years ago. No more porn here. Some mild urges over the past week. But I'm done. You can be too. Just decide and stop.
I dont know if you get used to it, but I feel like you gain more control each day and it becomes easier to talk yourself out of it. At least thats been my experience
True. And over weeks, months, etc., you keep building on that. I'm able to look back at where I was one/six/twelve months ago and see remarkable progress. You don't always move forward every day. Sometimes it's like three steps forward, then one back. But the important thing is that as you learn where you were weak and take action to try to prevent that from happening again, you get stronger in the fight. Not everything I learn is implemented every time. It sucks knowing that. But sticking with it - especially if you really want it - will pay off with time.
