70 days porn free - Any advise in order to stay clean?

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Silverson, Dec 23, 2019.

  1. Silverson

    Silverson Fapstronaut

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    Hi all,

    I am now 70 days porn free. It has been so far a heaven and hell experience.

    It has been Heaven, because I have finally found myself , found the career and job that I enjoy doing and found my hobby that I have passion for and love to do.

    Hell, because I get so sensitive. Since my recovery I get more hurt when I am around negative people. I found myself saying no more often because I just do not want to be with the wrong people. Sometimes, I just want to go back to porn and online sex/hookup dating but I understand that I am suffering because in the past this has been my medication/ procedure in order to feel better.

    I would appreciate all feedback and advise in order to make this journey further?
    Or maybe just hear your similar experience?

    Many thanks!
     
  2. pcmaster

    pcmaster Fapstronaut

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    That's beautiful that you found yourself and don't want be with negative people!

    Really life seems turned around for you in your favor. Why it's hard for you to be with negative people is because your spirit have changed and grown. You have became optimist and more sensitive inside since your soul is healed now.

    I can relate to finding it hard to interact with many people with who I was at ease before I changed. I turned to church and then later to bible and faithul people too. In this way my spirit have grown and its harder to interact with unbelievers. My new friends are Christians and that gives always at least one common topic to talk and discuss.

    So I suggest that you look into what God have prepared for you. Seek the truth and Jesus won't leave you alone in terms of friends and like minded people.

    What helped me to reach this streak was prayer to God for help to stay on straight road. So suggestion is to ask for help from above and believe in what you are asking. You can't do it on your own. Even guys with 500+ days relapse here. But it's your choice whether you try to do it alone or with most powerful friend on earth and in heavens. You can always call on Jesus for help. God sees you.
     
    Last edited: Dec 30, 2019
  3. Rohan19891989

    Rohan19891989 Fapstronaut

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    Man always remembered why you have started the Nofap. I came back to this community to remind me back Why I started NoFap ,as I am little off to my schedule that I was following from last 7 month.As you will make good streak you will feel happy and your mind will try to trick you to go to that old habit again .I am experiencing this and man every time ,I remembered why i have started this journey and remembered the pain that I went through ,which inspire me to get rid off this bad habit and follow the good habit.
    My advice you to always be alert and follow your good habit.Stay Clean and be happy.
     
  4. gabriel_rhcp

    gabriel_rhcp New Fapstronaut

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    Lo que puedo recomendarte, basándome en mi experiencia, es que intentes hacer ejercicio y leer cuanto puedas. La razón de esto es debido a que tienes que canalizar la energía que te proporciona el Nofap para algo que te traiga una mejora física y mental y al caer la noche ya estés completamente cansado como para tener deseos de fap. Obviamente que también es de suma importancia que te mantengas alerta a cualquier estimulo artificial, ya sean redes sociales y demás. para mi fue muy bueno dejar por un periodo todo lo que es aparatos electrónicos con acceso a Internet. Espero te sirvan las recomendaciones.
     
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