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89 Days and wet dream - WTF!?!?!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Wancawi, Jan 20, 2021.

  1. Wancawi

    Wancawi Fapstronaut

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    I was just about to reach 90 days without ejaculation and I had a wet dream. This is bad because I slipped up in thd dream which means Im not 100% determined, Im more like 98% determined and that 2% messed me up. In the dream I was talking about plants to this woman and I noticed she had green glowing skin, and also noticed she was very beautiful. We slightly rubbed against each other or something and I could feel that was enough to trigger an orgasm, I tried to stop it but it was too late, it turned into an orgasm. I woke up hoping that it didnt really happen but it did, the stain on my pants makes it apparent.

    Does a wet dream set you back? Is it impossible to completely avoid wet dreams? Im not gonna consider this a reset but still it bothers me a little. I know that if I was 100% determined, I would never think a sexual thought for even a second and I wouldnt have gone near that green lady in the dream
     
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  2. DeeJ4y

    DeeJ4y Fapstronaut

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    Don´t be harsh on yourself, wet dreams are inevitable. I guess they can be reduced if you can abstain from fantasizing during awake hours but it´s not relapse or anything that you should be worried about. I had a 86 day streak which last summer which ended the same day I had my first wet dream of that streak. It really threw me off my course cause I was thinking about that dream and ejaculating. I´m writing this so you don´t make the same mistake I made - just keep going and don´t look back! Since that streak wet dreams have occured a lot often and I do find a correlation in fantasizing or thinking about women and wet dreams, but that is not a problem you should worry about - porn and masturbation are your enemies, keep focusing on beating them. Also I do feel a energy drain every wet dream and I heard from youtubers that they do too - so you are more vulnerable to relapse cause it does take away energy to fight the real enemy. You said that you are 98% focused - make it 100% again! In conclusion - don´t worry and keep going, 89 days is impressive achievement!
     
  3. op_jack

    op_jack Fapstronaut

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    It''s totally fine. You should consider yourself lucky you don't have them as often as most of the other PMO quitters. I'm on about 100 days and I've had at least one wet dream every single week
     
  4. Holy shit, that must suck. The thing I hate the most is the mess.
     
  5. Agent

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    Don't worry wet dreams are natural, don't won't set you back because while in your dreams you barely have any control over them if any. Just keep going bro you good
     
  6. pump20

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    Wet dreams comes from the succubus in the dreams most of the time, so watch out.
     
  7. Just to be safe, maybe stay out of the gardening section for awhile?
     
  8. Erwin

    Erwin Fapstronaut

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    You shouldn't be sad over this. It's natural. Stay strong bro, you've reached 90 days!! That's great!
     
  9. archy0

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    Damn, I want to experience some wet dream too. Every time I fuck in a dream I wake up. And this happens about last 10 years.
     
  10. PeterGrip

    PeterGrip Fapstronaut

    Kinda dig your dream - sounds pretty funky
     

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