9 months into NoFap, insane women attraction

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Decade_Old_Fapper, Oct 16, 2017.

  1. Decade_Old_Fapper

    Decade_Old_Fapper Fapstronaut

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    I was an addict for last 10 years suffering from pied and ed.
    I used to fap 7 to 10 times everyday for last 10 years.
    Now, 9 months into nofap, my libido slowly coming back. In the morning I feel very horny but in afternoon and evening I have dead dick, so I know my libido is slowly coming back.

    But the fascinating thing to notice is, the amount of female attention I am getting,
    Whether I am in a metro, whether I am in a bus, whether I am walking on the road, all the women want my attention.
    I saw stories guys telling that women come in front of them and ask them for sex lol.
    It hasn't happened with me but women always want my attention, its like they are pulled like magnet towards me.
    This is insane, anyone else experienced that?
     
  2. mustapha07

    mustapha07 Fapstronaut

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    I am in 18th day and already getting female attraction. I think it is a nature thing , because us men our job is to reproduce so when we abstain from pmo, our body starts to release some kind of energy or signs to females to let them know that we are fully ready to reproduce , so that's what I think
     
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  3. r8js

    r8js Fapstronaut

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    this is encouraging.
     
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  4. Decade_Old_Fapper

    Decade_Old_Fapper Fapstronaut

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    When your seed is in with you, your aura becomes way more attractive, and you become way more magnetic.
    Women will literally stare the shot out of you, whenever I go out in 100% sure that I will encounter 1 woman eye fucking me, but it never happened before.
    This shit is for real.
     
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  5. Hitto

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    I'm starting to feel this attraction too lol I just stand proudly look any person in the eye even beautiful women and I just smile I notice some smile back and some just completely look at you and then loook down like they are shy I'm starting to realize it all about your energy I'm 7 months in almost I've been doing pmo for most of my teenage and adult life I feel kind of reborn now. Before I've always been told by women I was friends with in college how I was good looking and it shouldn't be hard for me but I took it way to seriously and I think porn wouldn't allow me to relax with my interactions with women. But now I take myself way seriously use humor all the time just smile and use things like being fit and humorous to my advantage and less hard on myself when I fuck up haha
     
  6. Hungry_Shark

    Hungry_Shark Fapstronaut

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    I am currently not having any motivation , my brain fog is still there and I have not yet gone out of zombie mode.

    I feel no humour, no smile, i am like a zombie , i laugh less and less compared to my previous version.
    Just waiting to get out of this state
     
  7. Hitto

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    Just be patient bro it may take some time I was very impatient in the beginning it's a process and still is just be grateful for things you do have everyday that has helped mec
     
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  8. saneagain

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    Bro. I am almost 11 months in. Still feeling all kind of withdrawals. Zombie mode doesnt cut it. It's torture mode.
     
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  9. r8js

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    woman attraction must be in one of top 3 or 5 benefits,i want......
     
  10. Mateo89

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    You attract what you think about man.

    Its all in your head. If you look for it, expect it, you will find it.

    Particularly for those who never any success with girls or never found themselves personally attractive, this phenomenon can seem more magnified. A cross example would be a person who never worked out a day in his life, starts going to the gym, sees some initial gains, and all of a sudden is filled with this euphoric rush that hes this incredibly muscular guy. However relative to guys whove been going to the gym their whole lives with way further development, it would seem ridiculous to see it that way. Subjectivity is a persuasive thing.

    And a lot of it goes beyond our conscious awareness.

    Sexual responses and behaviors happens in our primitive part of our brain, and therefore happens in the unconscious/subconscious. We experience a lot of change during reboot without us even being conscious of it. That is one reason why no matter how much we want "consciously" to attract a girl or talk to a girl or what not on a given day, subconsciously we can react in a completely different way.

    And that is why one day you can be seemingly be "attracting" all these girls, its just your subconscious primitive brain opening itself to welcome this attraction, as it now desires real wiring to sex.

    You perhaps were always attracting this "attention" you speak of all along, you were just not aware of it, due to the effects pmo had on you; particularly if you are deemed attractive according to beauty standards.

    An 'attractive' person that fits into the contemporary beauty standards of today will attract attention, regardless if he or she is addicted to pmo or not.
    For ex. I wont speak of myself, but i know guys who attracted a ton of girls even whilst heavily addicted to pmo, however their problem eventually was they were no longer able to engage in real sex; hence PIED.

    Because porn wires our primitive brain to thinking it has already fulfilled its sexual need, it shuts off that aspect in us subconsciously and therefore affects our conscious life. Though consciously we may want attract a girl, subconsciously this will not happen, or if it does, you will not be able to engage, and therefore the frustration of a lot of guys addicted to pmo.

    Overall however, the removal of PMO does open up our subconscious primitive brain to real sex, and therefore makes you conscious of attraction from the female sex, however is just one of many influencing factors in this complex interaction between sexes,

    Best
    Mateo
     
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  11. Hitto

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    Broke it down so well I can relate to this explanation many years I've been told by different women and some guy friends that it shouldn't be hard for me to attract women since I'm good looking and fit but pmo made me oblivious to all the things you mentioned and I'm realizing it was holding me back
     
  12. site1

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    What about wet dreams? Did you have any wet drem? If yes, what happened at the women attraction benefits? Did you lose them (entirely or partially) or you didn't ?
     
  13. arush1001

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    Are you getting nighfalls?
     
  14. Richmond03

    Richmond03 New Fapstronaut

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    Could you tell me at approximately which day did this start happening to you?
     
  15. This is the most reasonable and realistic take on all those 'superpower-talk' here on NoFap!! Thank You!
     
  16. Fenix Rising

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    It's true, I can't explain why it happens, but it does. I'm nearing 9 months of monk mode now. I had 6 months long monk streak previously with 3-4 months long relapse before current streak and I can confirm that you do become very attractive to opposite sex for no apparent reason. I have a theory that there is some subconscious hormonal signaling going on but have no proof of that. I did notice some physical changes: Two close male friends asked me what has happened to my voice. I always had "high voice (high vocal range)", so noticable that some of my friends even made some fun of it, but now I'm nearing bass voice type. I answer them that I caught a cold; hell I'm not gonna explain to them about NoFap. My testosterone levels are over the roof for an old timer (38yo) like me. Doc says my T measures are that of 18 yo male now, and I was on the low side for my age just 2 years ago. He thinks I'm taking s steroids, again I can't tell him what's going on. I also noticed I'm getting insane growth of my body hair, but not scalp hair unfortunately. I never had body hair on my chest, now strong hairs are growing all over my chest. To get back to women attraction, it definitely is real. Women on the streets glancing at me and playing with their hair, smiling at me for no reason. I had a drink with a friend yesterday and noticed 2 young women sitting at opposite tables started glancing and curling their hair. I was more embarrassed then they were. I went to speed dating for fun during my previous monk streak last year and got 9/12 invitations to dates out of it even though I was still acting like insecure jerk (been only 4 months into monk mode back then).
     
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