[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

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  1. Srisurya

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    Dude I am fighting since last 2..3 years. In starting I use to pmo every single day ...sometimes multiple times the same day. But now I still fail. But you know what I am able to do. I pmo or relapse once in 25 days gap. Ya we fall down we get negative thoughts. But hang on in there dude. You may fail but still you are doing better than ever before. Just keep faith and give your best shot everysingle time. Focus on your lifestyle rather than just no pmo. Cheers dude.
     
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  2. Srisurya

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    Day 1/90 coming to an end. Today busy busy. No thoughts or urges. Read my novel. Cheers guys.
     
  3. aznric3boi

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    You should be able to pick up from 60 days and move onto 90. I don't think you need to reset your counter. right?
     
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  4. Blackman92

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  5. 90/90.... Thanks to all the brothers in this challenge that gave me so much encouragement and love along the way. This is not the end. I plan to continue to live free of P and M. I plan to have sex, based on love but I hope to O only if it is of pleasure and benefit to my partner, because O is sacred and I commit to hold this energy sacred...

    You may ask...how do I feel today. I feel more grounded, firm as a mountain, less anxious, less stressed out. I feel more whole, more loving. I also feel more accepting of my whole self, because it is all sacred...the good, the bad, and the ugly, all permeated with the sacred energy of life. I also accept my friends that I come accross in this life with that sacredness too.
    And it is true...my dick gets hard on its own every day....and that is a perk too...LOL.
    Hang in there brothers!!! You got this. The buddha said, "sense pleasures are like salt water, the more you partake of it, the more your thirst increases..." the same it is true, the less you partake of it, the less thirst. Hang in there, you got this.
     
  6. Cap. Steve Rogers

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    thanks for the support buddy. This time devised different plan and doing this.
     
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  7. Cap. Steve Rogers

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    awesome man. Congrats on 90 btw.
     
  8. Captain Anurag

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    Day 32
     
  9. Cap. Steve Rogers

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    that's great mate. Great precautionary measures.
     
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  11. Anamikudu

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  12. Marin333!

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    Your only human, you obviously can't control every little impulse you have to M/O
    Know that you are going to have urges, expect them and prepare for them so that when they do come you are ready for them and you will do the right thing
    Don't turn your little slip ups into big one's, acknowledge that you messed up and move past it knowing you won't let it grab hold of your will
    As far as the whole unconscious/sleep thing goes, I just sleep with my hands crossed on my chest that way I'm not tempted to mess with it while inbed but waking up is something I have trouble with too:confused:
    You just gotta push through that haze and find something productive to do, for me I get right up and do push ups because it doesn't require a whole lot of thought I just do it to snap myself out of that urge until I find something else to do, sometimes you need a good shock to the system to remind you why your doing this
    Hope this helps you on your journey, stay strong my friend.:emoji_muscle:
     
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  15. RiseToGreatness

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    you´re doing great bro. you´re here, giving and receiving support, that´s what matters. the attitude is all there, now you just need to refine your strategy. see how you stumble, see if you can learn something from it, how to prevent.
     
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  16. RiseToGreatness

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    exactly :). very good brother, see how your mind is still begging for PMO? if the seductive thought is there, so is the addiction. don´t be fooled my friend. keep going, you´re doing great.
     
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  17. RiseToGreatness

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    it´s really easy, create physical barriers. how did you relapse? mobile in the bedroom? laptop? put them away, put them in a place were you know you can´t reach. so even if you go automatic mode (acting out without thinking) before sleep you can´t go anywere because the goodies are not available. if you relapse only by jacking off, i won´t give much credit to that, porn is the real danger. plus, knowing that there´s no stimulation material will make you less likely to masturbate. however if you´re upset about masturbation, do the same thing. physical barrier. leave the door open, change the display of the house if you must ;). do a preventive plan bro. you can do it. go!!!!!
     
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  18. RiseToGreatness

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    determination!!! excellent
     
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  19. RiseToGreatness

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    a cold shower might help. try it brother.
     
  20. RiseToGreatness

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    technically he as to start from zero. but he can leave the counter running of course.
     
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