Day 31 I promised myself that if I get 1 month I would take myself to lunch at this nice but expensive restaurant near my workplace. And that's exactly what I'm gonna do. Good day everyone!
I think it depends on the level of your addiction. I'm not married but i remember trying to reboot with only PM free. One time I was 27 days PMO free then had a girl over. As soon as she left i went back to PMO. It's called the chaser effect. This happened a few times only to conclude that i wouldn't try sex until I reboot to 90 days. (Most people recommend this. Some people do more). I guess you'll have to find out for yourself but long story short you absolutely can participate as long as you dont change the goal. Good luck
30/90...the addict in my brain will come up with many different ways to convince me to pmo...cunning, baffling, and powerful, it is...but for today, just one day, I’ll tell my brain no thanks to the pmo, and I’ll try to be helpful to myself and others and do some constructive shit. It’s the most helpful to do recovery stuff when I don’t want to. That’s the growth point. This doesn’t take an extraordinary person, just an extraordinary effort. Good luck everyone
hey, i am on 7 days challenge. after that i will take up 14, 21, 30 and then 90 days here, i wil come soon and i wil beat your days. im 100% sure i wil be the winner.
I feel you man, but I believe all comes down to what you set your mind to, and what you decide. If you set barriers for yourself, only to break them, there's something off. don't you think? I know how it is, I've been there myself for years. Take one day at time, even hours if its difficult. And don't be hard on yourself, remember God gave you your sexdrive, it is a good thing to be enjoyed with your future spouse. Start to thank God for it, and change your perspectives, that would be a start at least. Bless you
