Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by 2525, Oct 27, 2017.

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  1. RiseToGreatness

    RiseToGreatness Fapstronaut

    you still rewired a lot, congratulations bro. now try to learn with the fall, where you start to crumble, what are the triggers, the circunstances, everything. let´s go brother, you will make this, you will be free.
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  2. RiseToGreatness

    RiseToGreatness Fapstronaut

    37, shitty day today, feeling very tired with lot´s of brain fog. i guess i´m still feeling the effects of the long exposure to softcore days ago. the withdrawal is all here :(. this comes to show once more:

    viewing porn/softcore is almost as bad as masturbate to porn/softcore. stay away from it. to make a good, clean and fast reboot, just engage in totally different activities. it´s so simple and makes a world of difference. word of advise.
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  3. Sam99

    Sam99 Fapstronaut

    Day 2. Yesterday I had sex with GF (My challange is still 90 days without PM, but I had good conversation with my gf about it and she agreed to support me even with not having sex for a month o so.. I am really looking forward to it! We are probably not going to take abstinence from sex in next 2 weeks because of vacation.. but when there will be chance, Im going to try it!). Im feeling really glad and fresh that I came back to challange. I know, the bad days will come but now Im able to stand them better. With new knowledge from first challange I feel almost unbeatable. Thanks everyone for support! Wish you great day!
  4. win_harsha

    win_harsha Fapstronaut

  5. Anamikudu

    Anamikudu Fapstronaut

  6. Srisurya

    Srisurya Fapstronaut

    Ya I think I am pushing myself too much. I need to take of the pressure. I will work on it now. Cheers man.
  7. surfdude

    surfdude Fapstronaut

  8. I-nvisible

    I-nvisible Fapstronaut

    Day 21/90 and I can surely say that yesterday and today have been the most discouraging and depressing days I had in a very long time. Let's just say I feel disappointed about my sex life, which has affected my well-being all these years.
  9. Hardcandy

    Hardcandy Fapstronaut

    I am out, only no PM for me, not the hard mode.
    Last edited: Apr 28, 2019
  10. MarcoM

    MarcoM Fapstronaut

    Don't worry, try again, you can do it!!
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  11. Hardcandy

    Hardcandy Fapstronaut

    But I do not want PMO. O with SO is totally fine for me. Thanks for the support!
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  12. 2/90
  13. Relapsed

    I made one fatal mistake. I watched some nude scene and I couldn't resist my urge and I fapped. I learned that without any pornblock it is impossible so I have locked my browser and not going to unlock it unless I complete this challenge.
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  14. OscarMN

    OscarMN Fapstronaut

  15. Hey man,

    I know that it's really hard to find validation from something other than your sex life. Pretty much for my entire life, I used sex as a way to feel appreciated and valued. I would manipulate women's feelings, and I would hook up with women who had a self-image that was just as bad as mine. Whenever I didn't have sex when I was hoping for it, I would feel very alone.

    After a while, I realized that my worth is not determined by sex. In fact, by making sex as valuable as I did, I was lowering my value as a human being. I realized that chasing sex was keeping me from my potential. They say that a genius is just someone who has found something that he is more passionate about than sex. When I took a vow of abstinence, my life began changing. I pursued my passions in learning psychology, and I was able to orient my life around meaning. I cleaned out the skeletons in my closet. Overall, I became a more competent and caring person because I wasn't worried about having sex with people.

    There are better things out there than sex, man. And really, when you focus on it less, it will become better.
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  16. benj

    benj Fapstronaut

    Thanks bro. I appreciate!
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  17. Yup!! anyways thanks buddy...& with this I make 1 more day progress toward my goal... the journey is not easy after all it is just inside the brain but still, I will make it whatever it cost this time...day 47/90
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  18. Day 5/90

    A successful day of navigated pitfalls. Not my choice of a good day but I will be happy with it.
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  19. Lawliet129

    Lawliet129 Fapstronaut

  20. Fredi-the

    Fredi-the Fapstronaut

    Day 24 of no PM
    Day 93 of no alcohol or caffeine
    Day 61 of weight training
    - great day again today and feeling wonderful except for a sore knee
    - I remember Beamer said he had a sore knee during his reboot challenge so I wonder if it's a PMO withdrawal side effect ... caused by being "unbending" to PMO LOL :)
    - almost caved today on wanting a real (caffeinated) black tea today but decided to abstain and keep my streak going - zero craving for alcohol so far which is good

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