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Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by 2525, Oct 27, 2017.
I know that it's really hard to find validation from something other than your sex life. Pretty much for my entire life, I used sex as a way to feel appreciated and valued. I would manipulate women's feelings, and I would hook up with women who had a self-image that was just as bad as mine. Whenever I didn't have sex when I was hoping for it, I would feel very alone.
After a while, I realized that my worth is not determined by sex. In fact, by making sex as valuable as I did, I was lowering my value as a human being. I realized that chasing sex was keeping me from my potential. They say that a genius is just someone who has found something that he is more passionate about than sex. When I took a vow of abstinence, my life began changing. I pursued my passions in learning psychology, and I was able to orient my life around meaning. I cleaned out the skeletons in my closet. Overall, I became a more competent and caring person because I wasn't worried about having sex with people.
There are better things out there than sex, man. And really, when you focus on it less, it will become better.
Thanks bro. I appreciate!
Yup!! anyways thanks buddy...& with this I make 1 more day progress toward my goal... the journey is not easy after all it is just inside the brain but still, I will make it whatever it cost this time...day 47/90
A successful day of navigated pitfalls. Not my choice of a good day but I will be happy with it.
Day 24 of no PM
Day 93 of no alcohol or caffeine
Day 61 of weight training
- great day again today and feeling wonderful except for a sore knee
- I remember Beamer said he had a sore knee during his reboot challenge so I wonder if it's a PMO withdrawal side effect ... caused by being "unbending" to PMO LOL
- almost caved today on wanting a real (caffeinated) black tea today but decided to abstain and keep my streak going - zero craving for alcohol so far which is good
Day 9 on Challenge..
Day 16 Hard Mode.
Try to practice mindfulness, the thought keep coming cause you don't want to be there so you are resisting them and what you resist persists. The more you want they to go away there will come back stronger. Say thanks to the mind when theses thoughts arrive ,then they will lost it's power.
Another struggling day on Nofap...
Any tips for me as a beginner?
Day 1. Start again. Never give up!
13/90 (nofap 04)
21/90 today sucked
Day 1 starting over. After countless relapses.
Lesson learned it's impossible not to fap, if you don't keep busy. Most of my time I spend alone on my bed or resting on the couch. I enjoy my own space a lot,and guess that is also what Triggers PMO.
I don't like the outdoors so much, only when it's necessary I do go out.
What can I do?
64/90...keeping the resolve, determination, commitment, dedication, steadfastness one day at a time...this addiction is constantly working on us, just waiting for us to have a weak moment. Good luck and best wishes everyone, keep going!!!
Hi everyone i am new on nofap! I am trying this challenge !! Day 1.