[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

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  1. KingSMH

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    Bro Iam having similar feelings...maybe these really are some of the benefits of nofap....few years ago , I used to masturbate every time imfelt even a little bit aroused ....... but now i do not do it even if i have very strong urges.
     
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  2. Starboii

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    Streak: 118 days Hardmode
    Ok brothers, I made some resarches since I posted it and all had the same result: I had blue balls. I thought a lot about it, had heavy pains under my stomache etc. so I just masturbated, but WITHOUT PORN! Yep, it felt a bit weird but I must say WOW. No urges, no disgusting feeling, no pain, just relief, happinness. 118 days Hardmode, I`m happy with that. I think I should concentrade on a new goal. Of course I will not watch porn again, and will watch out to not relapse and not to get back to my old one. No. Instead porn is still disgusting, unhealthy, a sin for me. I know everybody got his or her own opinion about that, but I think I did enough Hardmode for me, now I`m concentrading on not to watch porn AND not to masturbate (only masturbate in situations like this). That means for me: Getting out of the comfort zone, speak to girls outside, doing Breakdance, playing guitar, maybe better studying than now.
    So, here is it:
    118 days Hardmode is my best streak. Wish me good luck that I meet my private goals ^^
     
  3. CosmicCrusader

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  4. Manpio

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  5. Meerkat

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    Ok, I am signing up for this challenge.
    Day 0/90
     
  6. Hadocken

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    Relapsed. Started seeing things I shouldn't. Finished in pmo....0/90
     
  7. Varg

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    Today will be 88/90, 2 days to go :)
     
  8. Srisurya

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    Day 43/90 successful. Last time when I did streak this long... My social skin behaviour conditions were better than this time streak. Well I am waiting to get better again like that atleast. Now my behaviour is still awkward in between friends. Still memory didn't improve. Waiting ......... Anyways one more day under my belt. Cheers guys.
     
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  9. win_harsha

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  10. RiseToGreatness

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    bro, can you stay with porn? are you happy the way things are?
     
  11. RiseToGreatness

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    congratulations bro!!! keep going, we´re with you :). Towards freedom
     
  12. RiseToGreatness

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    good call Curly, keep going!!!
     
  13. RiseToGreatness

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    awesome bro!!! my record is 55 days, i want YOU to pass it :). Onwards my friend.
     
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  14. RiseToGreatness

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    great post bro, i think you really nailed the spirit of nofap. this is not about becoming monks, this is about winning over a lustful addiction. when you want to give pleasure to yourself but without using some external source, that is perfect. you really made the reboot :). congratulations. and great coincidence because last night i wrote in my guidelines a new point which is crucial to understand the core of this addiction. i will write below.

    big hug my friend :)
     
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  15. Fredi-the

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    Start Date: Jan 25, 2019
    Day 133/136 no PM (relapsed day 51, 70, 102)
    Day 34/90 consecutive no PM
    Day 136 no alcohol or caffeine
    Day 104 weight training
    - feeling good about myself from 7 hours of outdoor garden work yesterday building planters
    - the urges have reduced in intensity but are still there
    - going for a 3 week holiday so that can be a trigger sometimes in hotel rooms
    - might not have regular posts now since I won't have wifi while on holiday and have limited data
    - learning to take this journey one day at a time
    - nice to see I am over 1/3 the way through this journey now
     
  16. RiseToGreatness

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    My friends, besides the damaging effects that porn does to your body and mind there´s another problem much deeper that goes through society that i think we don´t talk here as often.

    You see, we´re not really addicted to porn, we´re addicted to sexual stimulation - lust. Lust is basically dwelling in sexual amusement.

    Sex should come in the context of a loving strong connection, not as a means through an end. Lust - whether from porn, softcore, hookers, your dirty mind, whatever…. reduces human beings to objects. We stop seeing a person as a whole and reduce it to it´s sexual feature. We´re using people instead of loving people. It´s the same nature of killing, stealing, etc… we´re not respecting others, we´re abusing them.

    Society has a great deal in why things are this way, we are constantly being bombarded by sexy materials, it´s everywere. And that is something we must strongly say “NO”. We should know somebody´s body when we know their traits. That creates a deep connection between two people and through it sex becomes a transcendental experience.

    So everytime society presents you with the glorification of the body, wether from movies, magazines, internet, prostitutes, etc… turn your head away. People are not body parts, they do not exist to satisfy our needs.

    I have no doubt that much of the violence and tension between men and women are deeply rooted in the way society encourages the reduction of people to objects.

    So if we can see from this perspective our attitude towards PMO changes from “fighting it off” our system to “giving it up” because it´s plain wrong.

    I don´t mean to be cheesy but i think those groups of people that were protesting against porn 50 years ago they were right all along.
     
  17. hindiguy29

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  18. Starboii

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    Thanks bro, much love
     
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  20. Mr.Anka

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    Congrats bro I am sooo happy for you. I wish you could reach all your goals in your new life.:emoji_clap::emoji_clap::emoji_clap:
     

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