[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

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  1. thabo

    thabo Fapstronaut

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    Day 3/90
    I am doing this one day and 1 urge at a time.
    Yes we can overcome
     
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  2. Zephil

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  3. Rooki3

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    Day 18
     
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  4. Fredi-the

    Fredi-the Fapstronaut

    Date started: Jan 25, 2019
    Day 158/161 no PM (relapsed day 51, 70, 102)
    Day 59/90 consecutive no PM
    Day 161 no alcohol or caffeine
    Day 39 of weight training
    - I am thankful that the issues with the wife are smoothing out and we are getting past our differences
    - has taken 3 sessions of 3-4 hour discussions to get to understandings
    - I am happy we seem to be on an even keel now and I haven't fapped still as a result
    - feeling good about getting my own exercise program going again and being able to do it with my son who is totally into body building is a huge bonus
     
  5. Anew2019

    Anew2019 Fapstronaut

    Had another fall. I don't want to let it go it seams. I am better at watching my thoughts and motivations.

    Conversations with myself.
    "What is your motivation to stop?"

    Answer comes. "To be awesome."

    I ask "Why do you want to be awesome?"

    "So my brother will accept me."

    Me to myself.

    "He never will"

    "ouch"

    "Why do you need him to accept you?"

    "Because he is so much better than you and your value depends on how good you are"

    This is my subconscious speaking. I consciously know that this is aburd. This is the underworkings of what is going on. It is amazing how clearly I am seeing these days. My parents and my brother are real a holes and think they know everything. I believed them. They also shamed me and made me feel stupid a lot. Now I just need to figure out how I can change this. Rosary time.
     
  6. xmag3000

    xmag3000 Fapstronaut

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    Day 76 almost relapse today, but I escaped on time.
    Day 84 clean
    Keep going guys
    Good night everyone.
    :D:)
     
  7. Pensfan

    Pensfan Fapstronaut

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  8. Srisurya

    Srisurya Fapstronaut

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  9. My Best self

    My Best self Fapstronaut

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  10. Rebooter693

    Rebooter693 Fapstronaut

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    Don't want pmo to be my sex Ed. Its unrealistic and just made to play on your emotions.
     
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  11. Vir786

    Vir786 Fapstronaut

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    5/90 done. Day 6 going on.
     
  12. Relapsed... i was just 3 hrs short of making day 1...... anyways now its 50 relapses in 19 days..congrats to myself...big achievement
     
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  13. KingSMH

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    As I had mentioned all of this yesterday , later , last night.i was slightly aroused (without any erections) and then I went to sleep.I.had a.wet dream , but it. had nothing to do with what I saw yesterday (the images) , In fact , it had my previous sexual fetish that I had not seen or even thought of for months.I do NOT think I should consider this a relapse , as the evacuation was completely unintentional and it had nothing to do with what I saw .
     
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  14. ancesetor

    ancesetor Fapstronaut

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    Work had been crazy hardly get time to myself but I have noticed my morning wood is gone sex drive is at zero But I have come too far to quit
     
  15. Apple Mozart

    Apple Mozart Fapstronaut

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    Missed a day of posting, but today is day 5.
     
  16. mailsnew

    mailsnew Fapstronaut

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  17. antn

    antn Fapstronaut

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    This is so true. The sooner you own your actions and decisions, the sooner you realise that everything you do is your own responsibility. And that you should look within and take responsibility. Porn is not the devil or some mythical evil that takes you over, everytime you relapse it is your own choice. And the only way to improve is if you take that as your own, learn from it, and live with it.
     
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  18. Harrylucid

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    Day 20.
    One day at a time and one urge at a time.
    Have a good day and All the best guys.
     
  19. QuitP4ever

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