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Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by 2525, Oct 27, 2017.
Keep trying mate.. I am sure one day you will be successful ! Cheers!
2 gone.. 88 remaining.. PMO mode on!
well, they´re both bad, softcore and hardcore. but i consider explicit to be more agressive so that would be real porn for me. in fact i think i´m getting repulsed by any explicit material, it seems very rude, raw, awful in fact. so i guess i´m making progress in that field .
yeah, there are many reasons why we shouldn´t watch any sexual material, the reason you said is one of them.
let´s keep going bro, it´s not easy but it´s a keystone in our lifes. onwards.
we´re here bro, to back each other . let´s get going my friend, life is too short to be wasted.
Very good Jane , now to the next day. no pressure, just this day, no pmo.
welcome back bro!!!
awesome bro!!! lead the way
I'm in. Challenge accepted.
Starting today, #Day0 with great hope to reach 90+ days, this time at least.
well, it seems i´m drifting now, yesterday i peaked soft again, and this time was real close to touch myself. this kind of torture makes no sense. i´m acting in compulsion again, like in the first period of the reboot. and compulsion is a mine field. so i´m gonna take extreme measures and forbide myself to be home alone until i feel solid again.
sorry bros, this is probably a chaser effect of friday . i really feel i´m entering auto mode, can´t let that happen.
I am committing to abstaining from porn everyday for the next 90days, and to journaling in this forum about my motivations, experiences and struggles, for the sake of myself. I will try to journal everyday but I have to be consistent with the habit. Porn is out of the question, it doesnt exist for me anymore, idc if I have to suffer in agony through withdrawal symptoms for days and weeks... Life is short, I wanna live my life to the fullest because I only have this one life and I'm taking any compromises, porn has to fly out the window in order for me to live the life I want.
I will masturbate as less as I can, and will only do it out of love and awareness, I will not masturbate to avoid emotional numbness and negativity.
This is my resolve, this is my word, it is the most important thing to me because I value authencity above all else
Interesting as I have never seen someone split it up between hard and soft porn. I read a whole bunch on what constitutes a relapse and the best definition I found was anything which artificially arouses you. That would include porn subs too. I agree because once aroused by cute clothed girls, it's only a matter of time before they are semi nude, then nude, then having sex, then hard core sex until finally the weird fetish type stuff I would guess most people on this site are addicted too. You are fooling yourself if you think soft core is okay as it is bound to esculate as you well know. Avoid it all is my advice as it's a slippery slope back to full blown addiction. Just trying to return the favor and share the obvious with you as you doing that for me in the past has been the wake up call I needed so I don't fool myself and the addicted brain wins. Good luck, bro.
Started 90 Day Challenges on Jan 25, 2019
Relapsed 7/205 Days
Longest streak 51 days
Current Challenge Day 10/90 no PM
Day 57 of weight training
Day 10 - reduced alcohol, caffeine and sugar
- just gave watcoo some advice which hopefully will be helpful to him
- I am feeling great today and understanding this addictionmuch better now
- staying humble to the process and not peaking are the keys I have found work so far
- your brother in this struggle
Today, moments after the strike of the midnight clock. I signed up to be a part of this challenge.
I decided its time I take this long due challenge. The last time I have successfully restrained myself was over 7 years ago, for a month.
Im confident that, with the help of you guys, I will complete this challenge.
I wish everybody good luck.
Overall nofap days- 17
Longest days of streak-15
84 days to go.
Forgot to post yesterday 6 of 90 didn't really have any urges so a great day
Relapsed today so back to Day 0/90
Day 0. Taking the first step into life change!!