[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

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  1. Haddock

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    Started Challenges August 21, 2019
    Longest streak 147 days
    Current Challenge 4/90 no PMO

    Habit made: cold shower
    Habits to make:
    -wake up early
    -schedule the day
    -pray my chaplet

    No problem today but I know from experience that, for me, this is not the beginning that is difficult but after a month. So let's see...
    Good luck everyone ! ;)
     
  2. RiseToGreatness

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    awesome bro!! keep going
     
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  3. RiseToGreatness

    RiseToGreatness Fapstronaut

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    stay busy, stay passionate with your life. if you love your life you won´t give a damn about pmo because you know how bad it is. keep motivating yourself to nofap, daily, and work on your dreams, daily. with those 2 things combine, urges won´t stand a chance, they can land but they will not stay. Onwards brother
     
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  4. RiseToGreatness

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    hang in there bro, take a cold shower if you need. We´re with you!!!
     
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  5. RiseToGreatness

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    i reflect about my false start 3 days ago, and i realize i fell for an excuse "well, the last time wasn´t that good, so i rather end it in glory" :D and them relapse again, and it was not good either, because i´m in flatline. but that is totally beside the point. the thing is i fell for an excuse without realizating that i was subconciouslly allowing pmo in myself, suddently pmo was ok, because if i needed to end it well that means i wanted to have a good memory of it. then it hit me, "what the fuck?" :eek:. so i want to share this realization with you, i already add it to my tips, so once in a while i will post here the tips, updated. for now i will post just this update, i hope it helps.

    "the moment you realize pmo is deeply wrong, stop it at once. Don´t use any kind of excuses, especially the “one last time” excuse. Addictions are chronic diseases, technically you don´t know when it will be the last time. Relapses often happen in reboot. The difference is that if you allow yourself to “take a break” before starting the reboot or “i´m gonna fap just one last time” deep down you´re still seeing pmo as a positive behaviour. This will make the reboot much harder to accomplish because you have a positive belief about pmo. You have to see pmo by itself as a deeply destructive behaviour, even one single time. If you fall for any excuse, no matter what it is, you´re falling for the circunstance trap. The moment you use an excuse to fap today, tomorrow you´ll use another excuse, it´s only a matter of opportunity.

    You know how lot´s of people do New Year´s Resolutions? Most of them never acomplishes what they promise because they´re using circunstances over willpower to create a change in their lifes, and circunstances always change. So search in your mind and see if there´s any positive belief left about pmo. Expose it and set your mind straight, see with 100% clarity that pmo is deeply wrong and you want to finish it. Once you reach that clarity start nofap, not tomorrow, not in a few minutes, NOW."

    Onwards brothers!!!
     
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  6. sknnyjns

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  7. EEH89

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    1 week without M for the first time in my life and I could continue but i felt pain in my testicle non stop and i was afraid this is why i did M and the pain went away immediately, i was extremely gentle and i was having rock solid erectile without using the death grip method i was using before. Huge improvement in my sensation and sensitivity!
    NO P for 20 days and i will stop counting because Porn is dead for me forever and i am sure of this, never ever i will watch porn again in my life.
    But for M, i think 1 M/week is completely safe. What do you think guys?
    I am totally agree that P is the core of the issue. But M once/week have any disadvantage with super gentle touch?
    Regards
     
  8. Titu

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    8/90 kinda flatlining at the moment, but I feel like I have made some real progress during last few months. I dont feel any urge to watch porn anymore, longest streak I managed to be without was 37 days I think. Lets keep cumulating clean days to keep groving distance to this toxic behavior.
     
  9. surfdude

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  10. Jonnybjones98

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  11. si87

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    Day 12 is over now, phew!
     
  12. Saitama999

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    Day 15 /90
    2 weeks completed
    Stay strong everyone and dont quit
     
  13. Madhandec-15

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  14. Anew2019

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    2 days no PMO
    1 days less sugar.
    2 days no alcohol. 1 14 day and one 12 day streak.
    54 days no Facebook.
    Prayed my chaplet of Divine Mercy
    Prayed my litanies.
    Talks with God.
    Rosary
    Little office of the Virgin Mary.

    All is well. Feeling great. This Litany of Humility is great. I saw its effects today. I sang so good in the choir today because I was not concerned about how good I sound. I was just singing for the pure joy of it. It was wonderful. I found at the end of mass that part of me was wanting to be recognised for sounding awesome. Then I thought to myself. I don't want that. That will corrupt me. I did not want the praise anymore. I needed to see father after forsomething and he thanked me for all the hard work. It did not go to my head. Part of me wanted to shrug it off as no big deal. That's pride too. I told him that it is my pleasure. Part of my need for PMO is that desire for praise and recognition. I am glad to see this part of me healing. I will keep this Litany of Humility going every day. I think it is going to change my life. Keep it up and keep connecting with God and mother Mary.
     
  15. Srisurya

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  16. mailsnew

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  17. Kingfisher

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  18. bakes

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    I've never got this far since I've been here on nofap for about 4 years. The last time I was on day 33. I had sex then the chaser effect and then... relapsed very hard. That was 6 months ago. That's how long it took me to get back to where I dreamed to be. Now the same thought is bragging me. But just for today I will stay away.
    Thank you everyone for being here.
     
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