[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

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  1. Dat95

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    Day 14 reporting in! Bad urges and tiredness. Gotta cope somehow!
    Keep going friends. I’ll do the same!
     
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  2. Babansardar

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    thank u broo
     
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  3. Babansardar

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    today i breaked the rule of nofap no pmo.:emoji_disappointed::emoji_disappointed:
    what should i do next. any advice guys.
    i did not complete today rule.
    i am feeling hopeless:emoji_cry::emoji_cry:
     
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  4. RiseToGreatness

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    that´s a huge iceberg right there bro. do you consider yourself to be an addict? have you experience the 2 main issues of addiction, compulsion and loss of control? if so you´re probably an addict, that means you´ll never control one fap per week. forget it. plus if you allow yourself to fap once in a while soon your brain will ask for some fantasy, soon you´ll start making concessions... soon you´ll start seeing nudes, eroticism, softcore, etc... until you reach a full porn relapse. the obsession will not stop.

    no my brother, if you´re an addict, you have to go all in.
     
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  5. RiseToGreatness

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    awesome bro. now as time goes by you might feel like making concessions, softening your aproach, peaking a little bit, searching a little bit, there´s this kind of subtles moves towards lust, very subtle, but they´re there. once you aware of it put yourself back on track like it´s the first day of the reboot. don´t deviate an inch from your initial plan. if you attain more than a month in nofap that means your system works. so keep doing it, stay humble, stay sharp and follow that same system till the end. go bro, you can do it.
     
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  6. RiseToGreatness

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    it happens bro, see if you can learn something with this. much love
     
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  7. RiseToGreatness

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    what do you mean, what did you break? you use porn/masturbation? if that´s it, then it´s not the end of the world bro :), did you think you will do it all at once? ;) no bro, you got to learn, about the addiction, about the triggers, and especially about yourself. it takes time bro.

    learn with the fall and go again. see if you can learn something with the stumble. much love
     
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  9. Nadhir2565

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  10. Haddock

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    Started Challenges August 21, 2019
    Longest streak 147 days
    Current Challenge 5/90 no PMO

    prayed my chaplet today
    woke up early

    Habit made: cold shower (easier and easier !)

    Habits to make:
    -wake up early
    -schedule the day
    -pray my chaplet
     
  11. Started Challenges Jan 25, 2019
    Relapsed 7/213 Days
    Longest streak on challenges 51 days
    Current Challenge 18/90 no PM
    Day 64 of weight training
    Day 13 - reduced alcohol, caffeine and sugar
    - had sex with the wife last night and this morning, home alone, I am feeling some urges for the first time in a long time
    - must be the chaser effect after sex but I didn't think sex would cause it
    - anyway, holding strong and not peeking
    - your brother in this struggle
     
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  12. 05realme

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    Checking in day 32!
    Mental strength
    improved!!
     
  13. EEH89

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    Thank u. You are right.
    Thanks GOD I didn’t fail P also.
    Now i know why i failed and most people failed at day 7-10.
    As per science, the level of testosterone will increase after stopping M till achieve its pick level at day 7 of an increase to 147% more testosterone!! Then it will begin to decrease to achieve the normal level after 2 weeks.
    This time i will do it: no more M. I have 10 tough days and i will fight them by doing much more gym to pass them.
    God be with me and you all.

    => One more question please, stopping M completely has any bad side effect to sex performance with a partner ?

    Thank u.
     
    Last edited: Aug 26, 2019
  14. flabbergastedkoipond

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    Day 11. Urges are hitting extremely hard. Porn blockers and will power are saving me right now. The struggle is worth it.
     
  15. sknnyjns

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    Day 12 Completed.
    Very tough day.
    But still very motivated and determined to beat this addiction.
    This streak is gonna be it!
    Stay strong all, we are going to beat this!
     
  16. Camelon

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    Go left Go left Go left righ left
    Cuz sometimes u feel weak
    & when u feel weak u feel u wanna just give up
     
  17. ancesetor

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    Almost there guys
    Keep pushing
    Slow but sure
     
  18. Anew2019

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    3 days no PMO
    0 days less sugar.
    3 days no alcohol. 1 14 day and one 12 day streak.
    55 days no Facebook.
    Prayed my chaplet of Divine Mercy.
    Prayed my litanies.
    Talks with God.
    Rosary.

    I woke up with an e this morning. That does not happen very often. Been months. It was months before that. I went years without that. I don't even remember getting e's outside of when I act out in a very long time. I am healing.

    Had a very early memory of my anxiety and depression this morning too. I wish I could pinpoint when it was to see what what going on in my life at the time. I guess this is maybe a need for control that I need to let go of. I was hanging out at my friend's house playing road hockey. I was being bullied by a new kid in town. I felt very low. I was thinking and feeling that my friend does not like me. I said to my friend "You don't even like me" and I ran home. That was part of my problem. I believed that nobody liked me. I always felt like such a loser.

    3 days. Part of me wants to get excited and full of myself. Those lead to my downfall every time. I need to be grateful to God for my 3 days. I need to thank God for every day I am sober. I can't get full of myself. Humility, humility, humility.
     
  19. testwarz

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    Exactly! Reset your counter start again. You cN do this! :)
     
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