2 i decided to change my counter to just porn/masturbation, those are the real issues for me. no need to drag my wife into this and deprive her and myself of natural sex. but if i peek i will definitely not use sex to compensate my urges. oh no. i will deal with them the best i can, it´s my responsability anyways. brothers, i found a great video that´s explains why we keep relapsing even if we don´t want to. very important stuff here, watch it. today i tried his tecnique and i felt a great relief of urges and suddently very at ease at being home alone.