[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

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Dude when snake sheds its old skin, its a very painful process. same here too. but how wonderful to bear this bullshit pain to get ourself back to normal life we used to live few decades ago when we had no internet. Its worth it. Its not suffering actually. Just a distorted Habit Pattern.
Yeah i agree, sometimes it feels like iam only alive but not living i full live that i would like to. have not given up totally on life there is always hope here in life.
 
Day 55 / 90
Daily meditation streak running at 45 days...early every morning, helps reset my focus for the day, lowers stress and makes me feel more grounded and safe. Not staying in bed also helps...getting up early, straight out of bed. No urges, no temptations, no chance of relapse!!! To freedom. Onward brothers and sisters.
 
Joined nofap Jan 25, 2019
262/286 Good Days (no relapse)
Longest streaks 67 then 51 (4 years later)
Current Challenge 12/90 (ends on my 1 year nofap anniversary)
Day 88 weight training (3X/wk)
Day 29 reduced alcohol, caffeine and sugar
- just watched some good universal man nofap videos for my staying clean education and success
- need to learn how to get really honest with myself here in order to quit PMO for good
- how I am fooling my brain into believing I am being genetically successful when in actual fact, I'm just being a sorry loser who is using to escape from engaging in life and love
- also need to find better substitute behaviours to do when urges hit that are immediate and get me away from compulsivity to fap
- your brother in this struggle
 
Still moving along folks. I haven't posed in a few dates. I rarely think of porn these days. Random sex thoughts are more of a problem at this point. With that said all still remains well.
Hello everyone. I hope everyone is staying strong. Honestly I’m on cruise control right now. No desire to watch porn. I’m started to view women as women and not sex objects. I’m not comfortable because I’ve watched many videos which basically say urges happen to the most dedicated Fapstronaut. So I’ll just taking things as they. Stay strong.

Peace
 
Day 25/90
NoFap actually boosts my motivation to find a girlfriend. Since May I started nofap I started to feel this motivation pushing me to do something, rather than staying at home to watch porn. Another thing is I won't feel the shame, so a decrease in social anxiety. Increase of self-confidence.
One of my problems is I am too scared to ask the girl out, I am too worry that if I get rejected.
Ya brother it boosts us in search of a girlfriend
I am to feeling the same of having a girlfriend
But our first goal is to make ourselves clean and disciplined so that we can have harmony and love in the future

Getting rejected is another thing
The first thing is you have to start the conversation
And then you can think about the end result

All the best brother
Your brother in this struggle
 
After completing 11 days of nofap i relapsed. But i will not do a binge. My 11 days of progress is still with me. I lost my streak but i got experience. Next time I will get it right.
Day 0
Brother
Make a commitment and learn the habit of self discipline start changing your life and if you don't change your life. The factors which lead you to porn will lead you again to it
Learn new things, learn meditation and learn from your relapse and make physical barriers, don't even peek into anything stay away from social media If you want to completely forgot about porn then don't even think about it

Two things in life

1 the pain of learning discipline and being in self discipline
2 the pain of watching porn and later dealing with mind fog, shame and regret

So chose wisely

All the best brother
Your brother in this struggle
 
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