Joined nofap Jan 25, 2019 262/286 Good Days (no relapse) Longest streaks 67 then 51 (4 years later) Current Challenge 12/90 (ends on my 1 year nofap anniversary) Day 88 weight training (3X/wk) Day 29 reduced alcohol, caffeine and sugar - just watched some good universal man nofap videos for my staying clean education and success - need to learn how to get really honest with myself here in order to quit PMO for good - how I am fooling my brain into believing I am being genetically successful when in actual fact, I'm just being a sorry loser who is using to escape from engaging in life and love - also need to find better substitute behaviours to do when urges hit that are immediate and get me away from compulsivity to fap - your brother in this struggle
Hello everyone. I hope everyone is staying strong. Honestly I’m on cruise control right now. No desire to watch porn. I’m started to view women as women and not sex objects. I’m not comfortable because I’ve watched many videos which basically say urges happen to the most dedicated Fapstronaut. So I’ll just taking things as they. Stay strong. Peace
Day 12: Hitting a harder point but its still going well. I'm getting to practice healthy responses to urges and thoughts. Onwards and upwards and restored.
DAY-9 , Checking In . "Sometimes we motivate ourselves by thinking of what we want to become. Sometimes we motivate ourselves by thinking about who we dont ever want to be again." By- Shane Niemeyer.
Day 7/90 completed successfully yesterday Sorry for posting it late All the best brother Your brother in this struggle
Ya brother it boosts us in search of a girlfriend I am to feeling the same of having a girlfriend But our first goal is to make ourselves clean and disciplined so that we can have harmony and love in the future Getting rejected is another thing The first thing is you have to start the conversation And then you can think about the end result All the best brother Your brother in this struggle
Brother Make a commitment and learn the habit of self discipline start changing your life and if you don't change your life. The factors which lead you to porn will lead you again to it Learn new things, learn meditation and learn from your relapse and make physical barriers, don't even peek into anything stay away from social media If you want to completely forgot about porn then don't even think about it Two things in life 1 the pain of learning discipline and being in self discipline 2 the pain of watching porn and later dealing with mind fog, shame and regret So chose wisely All the best brother Your brother in this struggle
Today it is going to be 1/90. target is 125 days this time, that is until my next birthday. I want to gift this to myself on the birthday. Daily long meditation and some physical challenges to aid full recovery and help to stay clean.
You can do it, why worry. What if you get rejected? You will be, life is about living and striving, not about getting everything going your way all the time (that would be boring). You make your own succe.. by triing and trying and being a better you. Yes you can! Go for it! For yourself, not just to find a special someone, because YOU are special.
