[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

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  1. Luke777

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  2. Abc833

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    Day 20/90. Still in cruise control. Still no temptation. It actually feels like I’m above porn at this point. Confidence is slowly growing. Anxiety is slowly diminishing. I noticed this talking to Avery influential person at work. No stuttering no awkward pauses. I did talk to a girl for a minute on the phone, my small talk was terrible and she didn’t call me back. I was definitely disappointed but not nearly as badly as in the past. That was validation that change is taking place. At this point it feels like the NoFap lifestyle is taking over the challenge. Can anyone relate to this?
     
  3. NO! Not intentionally viewing nudity is not a reset but if you kept replaying that scene and playing with yourself, then that would be a reset.
     
  4. Joined nofap Jan 25, 2019
    264/288 Good Days (no relapse)
    Longest streaks 67 then 51 (4 years later)
    Current Challenge 14/90 (ends on my 1 year nofap anniversary)
    Day 89 weight training (3X/wk)
    Day 29 reduced alcohol, caffeine and sugar
    - home alone for 4 days with WiFi and devices and I am holding strong
    - one day left and the wife is back tomorrow
    - wish me luck brothers
    - your brother in this struggle
     
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  5. Getting_Free_From_Porn

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    brother you mentioned that you watched this shit for 4 times a day from that you should understand that this is compulsive behavior porn is not a recreational tool or alternate to boredom. you keep on watching this shit for days months and years and the porn never runs out and it does't satisfies you and it never materializes into reality

    you think women or girls get into porn for interest in sex, exploring there sexual things and feeling its enjoyable its a LIE bro

    in this culture of attention the need for attention
    they join in porn for the EASY MONEY OR THE DOLLAR SIGN, FAME AND FOLLOWERS AND ATTENTION

    I want to ask you

    how much LUST do you need?
    how much VIOLENCE do you need to SATISFY YOURSELF?
    how much DESIRE do you need?
    how much FANTASY do you need
    how many GIRLS do you need to SATISFY YOURSELF?
    how much DEGRADING VIDEOS do you need to satisfy yourself?
    how much TIME your wasting on the shit that never helps in your goals and growth in your life?

    REAL WOMEN ARE NOT DEFINED BY BODY PARTS, SEXUAL OBJECTS, PLAY PRODUCTS, FANTASY BODY PARTS, AND ARE NOT DEFINED BY V's AND A's AND ARE NOT SLUTS, PROSTITUTES, OR THING TO BE USED BY MEN AND ENJOYED BY MEN

    brother there are two things

    1)the pain of being the same
    2)the pain of changing your life for your future and your family if you want to change change from small steps
    a)Meditation
    b)Mindfulness
    c)Self discipline
    d)Immerse yourself

    chose wisely brother

    all the best brother
    your brother in this struggle

     
  6. Getting_Free_From_Porn

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    be STRONG and BRAVE brother never fear THE FAILURE

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    all the best brother
    your brother in this struggle
     
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  7. Getting_Free_From_Porn

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    all the best brothers
    your brother in this struggle
     
  8. KiroMusashi

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    Thank you brother for your words,i really needed them,you are right,this is a complusive behaviour,an addiction,despite knowing how bad it is and how unreal and fake it is,i still fall in this trap for the sake of short term pleasure,and to satisfy a desire that'll never be satisfied,i now know the road i should embrace ! I've to stick to it, thanks men ! And good luck !
     
  9. ZORROW

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    Thank god i never did that :)
     
  10. ZORROW

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    Thankyou brother , i ll try to remain as far as i can from these things , i ll try my best :). Thank you for your support ;)
     
  11. Sankofa

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  12. Day 0
    Relapsed hard. I been binging day after day. But i come up with a plan. I found my trigger for fapping. This will be pillar of my foundation.
    1. Never touch yourself, no scratching of balls or penis. No hands under pants.

    2. Never think about sexual desires. Never to keep on thinking about sex.

    3. No to search for it. I mean not even try to type it on searchbox. Never try to find out about sex. Avoid watching private parts or sexual scenes.

    4. Never touch the pornblocker. Don't go near it. No matter on how many days you are on don't dare to go near it.

    5. Even after all this warning if you manage to break every rules just don't break this last rule. This is most important rule. Never enter in porn site. If enter the beast tunnel you will never come out. Just say you said that i can resist it. Like i can come 99% sure. But when you enter it it's gonna be 1 % sure, 99% you wanna fap so don't do it.
     
  13. RiseToGreatness

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    yep, 3 more days :)
     
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  14. RiseToGreatness

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    well, for love put yourself out there :). go for the girl you want. as for the crying is very normal, it might be part of the withdrawal since periods of deep sadness are normal. get some sun bro, and do workouts, they´re great to boost the spirit. let´s go!!!
     
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  15. RiseToGreatness

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    good luck bro. let´s do this!!!
     
  16. RiseToGreatness

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    excellent bro, keep it going!!!
     
  17. RiseToGreatness

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    no, you´re fine, keep it going, no problem. just don´t start peaking now. that´s the real danger.
     
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  18. RiseToGreatness

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    awesome post bro, thanks!!! :)
     
  19. RiseToGreatness

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    well, all those of those conditions presume that you´re not gonna do that. a willpower thing. and that´s not enough brother. willpower oscilates a lot. my advice is: create a plan that makes you impossible for you to relapse even if you want to.
    ex: only stay indoors with people in the house,
    put the laptop screen facing exposure,
    when going to bed put the mobile in other room, etc etc

    identify your triggers and create physical barriers for them. it´s the safest and best method to pass the compulsion phase. you can do it brother, we´re with you!!!
     
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