[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

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  1. Fredi-the

    Fredi-the Fapstronaut

    Joined nofap Jan 25, 2019
    267/292 Good Days (no relapse)
    Longest streaks 67 then 51 (4 years later)
    Current Challenge 1/90 (ends Feb 13)
    Day 92 weight training (3X/wk)
    Day 29 reduced alcohol, caffeine and sugar
    - me on the other hand is a different story
    - after posting yesterday, I crashed and burned as I became a button pushing rat, as Noah Church would say, loosing all free will to do the right thing
    - it's really all about not giving yourself permission, I find
    - every relapse my brain has somehow given my body the green light to peak at something taboo and it doesn't take long for that to esculate to full out PMO
    - I am sorry brothers I am so weak
    - this has been a 43 year addiction for me as I came the first time in my life to text only, no pictures at age 13 to my mom's joy of sex paper back book
    - my use of porn just esculated along with the technology....before it was pixils on a screen arousing me, it was ink on paper in the form of magazines
    - die hard patterns like this have kept me a beta male and not living up to my potential
    - this has to change and it will change
    - I will reach 90 days without porn or masturbation one day if it's the last thing I do
    - God give me strength, Amen to that!
    - your brother in this struggle
     
  2. koslov

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    I don't miss PMO at all. I miss being with a girl. It's been almost two years since I was last with a girl. In January 2020, when I'm going to finish 90 days challenge, I'm going to the gentlemen's club and having fun (s*x) with hot Ukrainian girls!
    I'll see exactly if I'm cured of PIED and death grip. Then I will try to practice no PM life or maybe participate in 365 days no PM challenge.
    These are my plans, I hope not to relapse. What do you think?
     
  3. Day 0
    I relapsed today. I made a fatal mistake of watching porn images. I had a wet dream and then i fapped. I know every time i do this i am pushing myself backward. I know i could have hold the lease on my urges. But i did it knowing that it will cost me my progress. It's was not worth it. But i didn't do a binge. For past streak i learnt to go forward without binging. I don't feel any guilt after a relapse but when I used to binge i get guilty feeling for days. so every hour is progress. I am tired of telling myself the from now on i will do it without any relapse. But i think i shouldn't do it purposely.
     
  4. Sankofa

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  5. Majik

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    Half an hour short of completing 4 days.(Posting now as I will be in bed soon because of another mega early start tomorrow). This is the longest since the 25th September! Quite shockingly. October was a pretty dark month. That is behind me now though.
    Heard something on the radio the other day that has been going around my head and keeping me motivated today. Somebody was describing someone else, saying how much energy they had etc, and they called her 'a doer!'. It really resonated with me, and made me think that I need to be more like that. So today I have been introducing, and then reinforcing, the fact that 'I am a doer!' in to my head. It seemed to work this evening, as I went to the gym on the way home (which I failed at yesterday) and did more there than I thought! Hopefully this is the start of something :)
     
  6. RestlessEngineer

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    Let's try this challenge I'm checking in for day 0
    Wish me luck guys
     
  7. T.Griffin1991

    T.Griffin1991 Fapstronaut

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    First day joining the nofap forum after hearing about it for a while.
    Having suffered with anxiety and depression for the last 7/8 years, I am hoping that nofap can help me overcome some of the symptoms. I am trying to gain motivation for my studies and to stop wasting my time and energy. Looking forward to trying the 90 day challenge, any advice from people further along in their journey would be much appreciated, thanks.
     
  8. ohayou615

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  9. Lordduckwarner

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  10. win_harsha

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    Brother
    No problem you have made a progress so your brain is not in the stage when you have started this streak

    Be careful and keep all the social media, movies and some type of magazine out of reach and craft some physical boundaries around yourself and be self disciplined every time and change your way of living your life

    NEVER DO THE PEEKING ACTIVITY ITS LIKE SITTING ON A TIME BOMB

    Live, dream and succeed
    Achieve your goals brother

    You CAN You MUST You WILL

    All the best brother
    Your brother in this struggle
     
  11. Srisurya

    Srisurya Fapstronaut

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  12. win_harsha

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    Brother

    If colonel Sanders would have given up when he was rejected 1009 times for his chicken recipe and there would be no KFC but at the age of 65 he succeeded and went on to become a masterpiece and world richest and successful person

    Your mind is the biggest battlefield be its commander and not its soldier control the mind steer your mind towards your vision, your dreams and your success. FIGHT as if tomorrow is the end. FIGHT FIGHT until your opponent cannot stand. FIGHT hard until you reach your vision. FIGHT with determination and FIGHT with commitment who the hell is going to stop you. FAILURE never fear the failure you are a WARRIOR not a PERVERT

    I survived because the fire inside me is burning brighter than the fire around me when you want to achieve something you must be burning like the sun

    No matter how hard is the past, no matter how hard you struggled you can always begin again brother fight for your dreams no one can stop you

    SELF DISCIPLINE

    All the best brother
    Your brother in this struggle
     
    Last edited: Nov 13, 2019
  13. mrorange

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    Glad you are here. PM was/is definitely a contributing factor to my depression but I didn't realize how much until I started doing it less. I hope you can find what you're looking for and get to a better/healthier place. We are here for you brother
     
  14. mrorange

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    Day 18: Checking in. Busier these days so that helps. I get thoughts that sneak in trying to tell me to look at stuff but changing my response to those thoughts has been good. Physically moving and doing something else has been helpful. Onwards and upwards and restored.
     
  15. Arnab12345

    Arnab12345 Fapstronaut

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    Day 1 completed, day 2 going on
     
  16. win_harsha

    win_harsha Fapstronaut

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    All the best brother

    Start the streak with vision, 100% commitment and determination
    Motivate yourself every day
    Learn yourself new things like meditation, mindfulness and self discipline

    And first thing know your root cause, why are you fighting and how porn effected you
    write down on paper and read it every day and work towards your dreams

    DON'T DO THE PEEKING ACTIVITY NEVER DO IT HOW HARD ARE THE URGES NEVER PEEK INTO ANYTHING AND DON'T FEED THE URGES

    your brother in this struggle
     
  17. Bobske

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    Sorry for your loss
     
  18. Bobske

    Bobske Fapstronaut

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    you can do it, be proud of yourself, do it!
     
  19. Bobske

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  20. Bobske

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    That is a soft way of going to the hookers? I think you will never be cured if that is the motivation and goal to reach at the end of 90 days. I think you will never have a meaningfull relationship if you keep thinking and acting that way. You are still wiring your brain to objectify women and see sex as a reward you deserve, still keeping the addcition alive.
    You miss sex, not being with a woman/partner, that is a whole different ballgame.
     

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