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Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by 2525, Oct 27, 2017.
well , i have done this money thing in the past and it doesnt made any difference , to me , so money is not the motivating factor for me , i think this time i should punish myself with this thing otherwise if you have any better punishments then please suggest me , i literally fed up of this addiction , even smokers can quit their smoking within some years but why cant we quit this PMO .
Day 39 of 90 No PMO 15-11-2019
51 to go 43,33% reached
+10 days no PO
Daily check-in, on day 20.
Masturbation is like shopping, we spend our health in exchange for fleeting moments of pleasure. Many people due to their greed of indulgence have become impotent, due to their ignorance in medicine. I hope these words is able to strike a note with the reader.
The 10 stages of rebooting.
Stage 1: This is when we realize that masturbation is affecting our healthy negatively and we have a thought about quitting. However, after reading about the harmlessness theories of masturbation we are not so determined anymore, we think that masturbation in moderation should do us no harm. This is the very initial stage of rebooting which is characterized by ignorance and naivety. The result: failure!
Stage 2: We gain a small understanding of the harmful effects of masturbation, but not a thorough understanding. The result: failure!
Stage 3: We begin to study other peoples’ experience of rebooting and we try to break our rebooting record. Although we have managed to set a new record on the number of rebooting days we are still unable to break out of the vicious cycle. The result: failure!
Stage 4: This is the confusion stage, after numerous failures, we start to doubt ourselves. At this stage, we are not putting in enough of a fight, no fight no victory! The result: failure.
Stage 5: Our body gives out signals once again and it’s clear that our health has deteriorated. Once again we make up our minds to quit and rely helplessly on the brute force method without learning about the correct methods. The result: failure.
Stage 6: We begin to see the harmlessness theory for what it is, that it only works to trick the “children”. This is when we experience a breakthrough in our way of thinking but we still fail to understand why we are unable to quit masturbation. The result: failure.
Stage 7: This is the stage of understanding, gained from reading vast amounts of rebooting articles, we begin to acknowledge spiritual teachings (such as Buddhism) which helps to increase our determination tremendously, we break the 100-day streak. The result: still failure.
Stage 8: The thorough cleansing stage, we are starting to cleanse ourselves both consciously and unconsciously. Once this idea has entered our subconscious we easily break the 200-day barrier. There may come one day when we are browsing the internet and have our guard down or we have been slack in our rebooting studies, we therefore stumble near the finishing line. The result: still failure.
Stage 9: We are almost there now and have become even more careful, our understanding takes on another level. We are no longer affected by dirty thoughts, what we see do not enter our intentions, what other people sees and like we react with caution. We are steady in our heart even amidst rough winds of thoughts. We have discarded the habit of masturbation altogether.
Stage 10: “Nothing to begin with, how can nothing stir the dust”. We have come to the highest stage where all things returns to simplicity, just as the “sweeping monk” from Jin Yong’s martial art novels. Great skill is hidden in plain site, this is only achieved by the Master. Tips: Everyone should be able to find their current stage in rebooting, just like in video games we have our levels, once we have reached that level success will come. If our level of understanding is not there we will have a hard time to quit masturbation, for a master there is no difficulty, while mastery is difficult to achieve for a layman. Hopefully, everyone will continue to study rebooting articles, the day when we find our “aha” moment is the day when we can walk away from masturbation for good. For the few bright people with keen minds, they are able to skip over stages just as a bright student is able to skip grades and the poor student will need to remain in the same grade.
MY COUNTER IS 2 DAYS AHEAD SINCE I RELAPSED BEFORE RESETTING MY COUNTER ON OCTOBER 31ST
Lol i today almost indulged in spying my neighbour through window. I was anticipating something nude to happen from spying my neighbour. It took me few minutes before i completely stop. Nudes didn't happen. But the thought of spying thinking nudes may happen is to be taken seriously.
Day 29 at the end of day.
Count me in! I am currently on the 3rd day of my NoFap journey. But I start at day 0.
day 17 fight the battle. reaching 90 is not more difficult that we make it out to be.
If anybody find my last post.. please let me know.. i am not able to find which day i am on in this challenge
Thank you brother! I will not stop fighting this addiction!
Brother sad to hear this sad story
Your mind is the biggest battlefield be its commander and not its soldier control the mind steer your mind towards your vision, your dreams and your success. FIGHT as if tomorrow is the end. FIGHT until your opponent cannot stand. FIGHT hard until you reach your vision. FIGHT with determination FIGHT with commitment who the hell is going to stop you. FAILURE never fear the failure you are a WARRIOR not a PERVERT
I survived because the fire inside me is burning brighter than the fire around me when you want to achieve something you must be burning like the sun
No matter how hard is the past, no matter how hard you struggled you can always begin again brother fight for your dreams no one can stop you
All the best brother
No problem when there's a problem there is a way
Don't loose your determination and commitment
Don't hurt yourself and worry be in self defense and self discipline
Please don't peek into anything stay away from social media and explicit content
AND PLEASE DON'T PEEK AT ALL
Your brother in this struggle