[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

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  1. that_homie

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    Just realized I haven't posted in a LONG time. Well, today's day 1. I had insane urges yesterday and while I had stuff planned, eventually it was just too much to handle on top of a conversation with a friend that came like a punch to the gut. But 9 days is longer than I've done previously, and I feel like I can do better next time. I need to start planning things for those down days when I don't have anything but homework.
     
  2. adipath

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  3. RiseToGreatness

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    60 days my brothers, 2/3 are done :). Let´s go!!!!!
     
  4. Galaxy Hitchhiker

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  5. Phoenix1

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  6. Log:
    Order and self discipline. Easy to say, hard to get.
    From now on I shall wake up everyday at 5.
    From now on I shall remind myself of my failures every time I have the slightest urge.
    An ordered life.
    Challenge ends May 1st.
    Discipline is the way.
     
  7. discovery

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  8. Day 20/90 No PM (ends April 8)
    Day 370 on this challenge
    Day 128 weight training (M, W, F)
    Day 29 No alcohol
    Day 22 No desserts
    Day 24 No caffeinated coffee
     
    Last edited: Jan 30, 2020
  9. thefishman

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    Day 73. Super low libido lately, got me feeling tripped up this late in the game. But ignoring my worries and pressing on
     
  10. thefishman

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    I feel your pain man. There's no worse feeling than resetting to zero. Since I've been sexually active (about 10 years) I have always had ED. Severe ED. Because of this I've steered clear of sexual encounters and this made my confidence drop over the years. And this isn't typically something you can talk to people about. After seeing urologists for years I decided this addiction was causing my ED and it made me more stressed because it's a difficult and time consuming process to rewire. But it also gives you hope that things can change. After years without any sexual intimacy, last year I finally decided fuck it, I deserve some happiness and went on a hinge date and started (trying) to hook up with someone for a few months. I was never really able to fuck but was surprised that this girl said she didn't care, it was just nice to be together. That was a big moment because it showed me that even though my confidence is shit and I feel like less of a man because of my limp spaghetti dick, I can still find some happiness in some way and be appreciated.

    I've been at the 90 day challenge for a few years and I've seen improvements in myself because of it. I'm getting further each time, this time being my longest because I decided to only stop porn, but keep the MO in. I see a different girl now and then, and am lucky that she's ok with me not being able to get hard. Last month I actually got hard for the first time in years and was able to fuck. And I think it's partially because of the rewiring of this challenge but also the feeling of shame and doubt within me began to lessen when I stopped having expectations of what I'm supposed to be.

    I'm ranting about myself here because I have been in your shoes but have started experiencing hope. What I've learned from my experience is that it's going to be a long road to become the man we want to sexually. But as long as you stick to the route it won't matter because the small improvements over time will give you the motivation you need. Take some leaps of faith to find the happiness you deserve and you will grow and change even from the smallest steps. Keep pressing on and you'll find that there's meaning and happiness out there for you. If you ever need someone to message or vent to feel free to hit me up
     
  11. bromor

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    Yay! Congrats man!

    Day 33 for me! Nice number hahah numbers don't matter that much though, only staying comitted long term matters! My plan is after 90 days, just continuing without counting :)
     
  12. Monster@123

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  13. Day 4...100 hours without porn...feeling great hope i reach 100 days in similar way...
     
  14. Vendidad

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  15. Homo Deus

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  16. Merry Terry

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    Day 11. Today I'm gonna try something scary and make it a little harder for myself: I'm switching off my site blocker for a day.

    I've been doing pretty well over the last few months - if it weren't for one real slip a few weeks ago, I could even argue that I'm near to reaching the 90 days, since I started in the beginning of November and my other slips weren't nearly as severe as that one. However, there have been moments where the only thing really preventing me from slipping was my site blocker. So it's good I was using that, but I also want to stop needing one.

    Today, I'm feeling, could potentially be one of those days where I try to push the limits, search for some sentences that turn me on, look at stuff and surf around until I get to a point where my site blocker intervenes. So I'm deciding right now it's not gonna be one of these days, and instead of relying on my site blocker, it's gonna be me that stops myself from searching for bullshit.

    Let's go!
     
    Last edited: Jan 31, 2020
  17. MasterPablo

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    check-in, 1st week done
     
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  18. Ibnmorales

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    relapsed hard starting fresh lets do this no more playing
     

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