[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

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  1. Martin Martin

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    Today I gave in and I did M and O. I didn't use porn though. I read about people who can orgasm without ejaculation and read about sitting in a meditation position and looking in the mirror while masturbating and trying to be present and not fantasise. I've been recommended to try looking in the mirror before but it always felt weird in the past when I tried to do that. This time at 1st was still a little weird and I did stop a few times but then I did keep going to experience what it was like. I think maybe one of the benefits of this is it can take away the feeling of shame, if you can look yourself in the eyes while masturbating and not feel shame that you're doing something wrong I think that's a more healthy way to release the energy instead of watching porn and feeling ashamed and guilty after or fantasising over people you know or have met.
    I know I didn't manage 90 days but I still feel proud of myself for lasting nearly 2 weeks no PMO. I will start the counter again after this post and try again. I'm going to see if I notice any differences in how I feel tomorrow. Another thing that has been helping me on this journey is looking in the mirror each morning and evening and saying "I love you" to myself.
     
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  3. PowerfulSRE

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    Everything is possible guys. Only 3 months from today you can be in a different position. Mentally, physically, financially. Keep going, don't give up.
     
  4. glnb8

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  5. Martin Martin

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    Yeah let's do it. I just started again on day 0.
     
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  6. Symbol of Peace

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    I wanna congratulate everyone for the efforts in staying away from PM!
    @Martin Martin Do not give up man, in all my past relapses when I did MO without P, I was thinking "why not? You already losed" NOOO! You didn't losed, porn is the principal enemy of today's society because makes people idiots about sexuality and real sex is different from the porn videos we saw in the past.

    If you just faped and didn't seemed porn, you practically won, do not judge yourself and keep going forward!
     
  7. Symbol of Peace

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    Day 2. I'm really bad today, I'm sick, need hygienic paper all time...
     
  8. Ron Winny

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    I had been trying this for the past 6 years and today i understand something
    It's not the boss of me
     
  9. 61/90. Glad not to waste my time on that useless thing... More joy in doing simple things like reading books, exercising, having a couple of beers with friends... I haven't been enjoying just lying in my bed in the morning without sexual phantsies for many years... Keep calming my mind...
     
  10. AcabouChorare

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    Day 8/90- broke the 7 day barrier w/o MO or PMO ... but barely.
    I know this much: if I hadn't joined the community AND taken the challenge I would not had been able to hit day 8.
    Thank you all for the inspiration -from those on day "0" to those about to finish the challenge!
     
  11. Pone

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    The way you relapsed is similar to how I was relapsing. I start MO cause I want to see what the guy in P where doing after S. Then when I realized O I got hooked and most times I tried to stop I would relapse cause I found something new I wanted to try. But now am very alert and mindful so that when these ideas come in I don't act out
     
  12. Pone

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    Quick recovery bro. Hang in and be strong. It's at such moments when we are weak that. You get strong desires to PMO. Hang we are praying for you to recover.
     
  13. Pone

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    Day 26 almost done. Tomorrow I do day 27. Had some sexual urges just like some 30minutes back. I was having Brian fog. And noticed when I look at a pretty girl I was getting urges to watch P. But now am good and feeling better
     
  14. dannyboy91

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    Feeling immense shame today after my recent binge... Reflecting on how deep I've got myself into this addiction even though I have no reason to - I have an amazing wife and daughter and good job. So many great people in my life too. I know shame is not good but can be difficult to shift, especially when it wasn't a one-time slip but full blown relapse.
     
  15. Pathofsuccess_1

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    You’ll be ok, just do what you know your supposed to and stay on track and you’ll be back within a week.
     
  16. Day 2/90 No PM
    Day 407 attempting this challenge
    Day 139 weight training (M, W, F)
    Lifestyle: reduced caffeine, desserts and alcohol
     
  17. Vendidad

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  18. Jorge1

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    Checking in, day 10 passed, feeling positive energy and increase in libido, good luck everyone
     
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