[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

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  1. georgebou7

    georgebou7 Fapstronaut

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    Day 23

    Last Friday I was like sick but weekend was great. I went a trip, had a great time with friends and socialized a lot. I am not good at socializing generally but think nofap benefits help me to be more relaxed and speak better.
    No i am looking forward to complete 1 month, it was my short term goal.

    Keep strong guys!!
     
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  2. Bobske

    Bobske Fapstronaut

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    45 days, 1.080 hours of the rest of my life
     
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  3. 16/90. Start of a busy week w/ work, but I've set goals to keep my priorities straight :)
     
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  4. Life’sWork

    Life’sWork Fapstronaut

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    24 days / 90 monk mode complete

    26%
     
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  5. testwarz

    testwarz Fapstronaut

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  6. hallo humans

    hallo humans Fapstronaut

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    Count me in
    0 days
     
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  7. JustForTodayz

    JustForTodayz Fapstronaut

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  8. james0422

    james0422 Fapstronaut

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    Day 40 morning checking in. My headache is finally gone at this moment.
     
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  9. hellofriend86

    hellofriend86 Fapstronaut

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    Checking in:

    Day 19/90- no PM
    Day 15/90- no alcohol

    Thanks guys
     
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  10. Timothy_James

    Timothy_James Fapstronaut

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    Day 49/90

    Coming up on the big "five-0"
     
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  11. iwillmakeit95

    iwillmakeit95 Fapstronaut

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  12. Day 43/90 No PM
    Day 493 at attempting this challenge
    Day 175 weight training (M, W, F)
    Lifestyle: No caffeine or alcohol and reduced desserts
     
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  13. Nekkhamma

    Nekkhamma Fapstronaut

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    9 days done, no pmo. One more day, let’s just get one more day. Today. Here. Now.

    Porn thoughts are not real, they are like hungry ghosts, they are just memory, not real, and I need to remind myself that it’s just not worth the stress.

    But, diverting my attention to something useful and positive, and getting to the other side of urges, IS worth it. Good luck everyone :)
     
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  14. Vendidad

    Vendidad Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the support bro
     
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  15. Merry Terry

    Merry Terry Fapstronaut

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    Day 6.
    I joined this forum 210 days ago. Of those 210 days, I was 188 days without M’ing to P.
     
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  16. Day 0
    Total clean days- 9
    Total relapse- 2
    I did it. I Know what I did it and I feel a bit sad about it. There is no guilt in me for relapsing but I could have stopped it. I know the reason behind it and I will not blame my addiction or urges. It was me who did it knowing the consequences.
     
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  17. koslov

    koslov Fapstronaut

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    I was offline 3 days. I drank some beers on Saturday and had a really nice conversation with girl.
     
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  18. hermitthefrog

    hermitthefrog Fapstronaut

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  19. Vendidad

    Vendidad Fapstronaut

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  20. hermitthefrog

    hermitthefrog Fapstronaut

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    I was watching a video from Mark Queppets Reforged Man last night, which was about rationalisations. Here’s what I learned;

    So basically you consciously did something (relapse) which went against your earlier decision to quit PMO. Because this decision was at odds with your intentions, there must have been a rationalisation to justify the relapse.

    It could be helpful to try and identify that rationalisation. Then you could come up with a better argument for not relapsing when the urge hits the next time and the rationalisation pops up again.

    For example, a rationalisation might be “I’ve had a tough day, I need PMO to wind down and it’s no big deal, I’ll quit PMO tomorrow”. A thought to combat this could be “there is no better time to quit than now, I cannot afford to put quitting PMO off one day, because tomorrow I might put it off again”.

    Of course that may not have been what you were thinking yesterday, but hopefully you get the idea and you get some benefit from it.
     
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