[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

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  1. Golden-Balls

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    The freaked part is for real.
    The problem is we rear hens and they mate like on an hourly basis. So am kinda worried that if this is to become a trigger than things are about to be really complicated.
    Thanks for response @terry
     
  2. Prince Joseph

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    Relapsed on first day itself . Remains 0/90. Trying hardly again!
     
  3. scottydeee

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    You can do it! Don't give up.
     
  4. scottydeee

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    Just a few hours away from 7/90, the longest amount of time P/M/O free since I was very young.

    Looking at the end goal is so hard but I feel it's much more manageable to break down into smaller goals like others have mentioned. Gotta keep pushing.
     
  5. discovery

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    I have wondered that myself. And when she says that she is a former sex addict, well that doesn't help the triggering effect either.
     
  6. discovery

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    Day 60 of 90 complete! (No P)
     
  7. Thanks for asking. It'll be my hardest week yet because my wife is headed out of town for the week. I always struggle a lot more when she's away. I've got to stick to my plan of bed by a normal time and be open to ask for help as well.
     
  8. thedeskman43

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    Ah, I understand the worries. I'm only a rookie so can't really give a lot of advice, but I guess if you get close to relapsing calling your wife or coming to the form will help. And maybe some working out during the day so you can go to bed on time. You got this man!
     
  9. Merry Terry

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    I wrote down a new mantra today that I plan on repeating a lot in the next 3 months:

    "I say no to shameful lusting from a distance. I say no to sex as a provider of meaning."

    After thinking it through for a few days, that's where the problems are in terms of how I view sex:
    1. I often experience it as something that I'm not a part of - when watching P or spying on neighbors or staring at beautiful women on the street - and in that context it's always a huge source of shame.
    2. And then when I am in a relationship, the sex we have becomes this super important thing that I base the value of my manliness and worthiness upon.
     
  10. the_wizard

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  11. Prince Joseph

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    You're going good!
     
  12. 23/90
     
  13. Mr Eko

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    90 day's to reset the mind and to 'reboot' is a myth. This is a life long struggle. Never will happen that you will be immune to porn. It will be easier, sometimes easy but each day can you fall in the pit if you become careless.
     
  14. lookingtochange

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    Day 40/90. Crazy I'm hitting this milestone, but need to remember where I want to end up. It's so nice to not be having mood swings and having a general "good" feeling. Been able to do a lot of the work I've been needing to do and have been doing a lot of things for fun, too.
     
  15. Various_Ease

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    I can understand how it feels especially after you relapse after a long streak. Stay strong and motivated. The next few days are going to be critical so keep hanging in there.
     
  16. omerico2121

    omerico2121 Fapstronaut

    Day 10!
    11.111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111...%!
    May our joy never end as this number!
     
  17. Various_Ease

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    Day 4 completed. As I mentioned back in my previous post, the next few days are going to be very critical. Because after you relapse from a long streak, your motivation levels are low and the path forward is less unclear. But you just have to keep hanging in there. One step at a time. One day at a time. And then after few days have passed, things will get much better. So take each day as a challenge. In order to motivate myself, I'm keeping track of mini-challenges within the big 90 day challenge. Completed day 4 of mini 7 day challenge.
     
  18. thefishman

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    On day 8, finally broke out of the cycle and moving forwards
     
  19. franed98

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    Going strong thanks for the support
     
  20. yourbiggestconspiracy

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