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  1. Relapsed this past weekend after a stressful few days and didn't follow my habits of putting my phone away at 9pm like I need to.


    I'm going to start my own recovery journal to help out more.
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  2. WaterNewt

    WaterNewt Fapstronaut

    YOU BASICALLY HAD SEX. How is that a relapse mate?

    Did you go for the no P M and O?
    Just hope that you are ok and that you aren't too hard on yourself. Be happy with you gf :)
  3. Well said my friend.
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  4. edwinze

    edwinze Fapstronaut

    day 14/90 , never been this far . lets go
    Vendidad, Black jack, Updesh and 4 others like this.
  5. Blaze21

    Blaze21 Fapstronaut

    Day 15/90

    Felt very good today, I’m in my first day of the third week, feeling ver motivated and with my eyes opened. Let’s go brothers!
    Vendidad, Black jack, Updesh and 5 others like this.
  6. Libius

    Libius Fapstronaut

    Day 9/90 complete. Maybe I counted days wrong lol...

    **I was very depressed yesterday and feeling much better today; time is the greatest healer**
    Vendidad, Black jack, Blaze21 and 2 others like this.
  7. Lamboskovich

    Lamboskovich Fapstronaut

    Day 85/90

    5 more days to go. We’re almost there!

    Here’s a tough pill to swallow. Once you accept and apply this truth, your life will never be the same. The fog will start to clear. Initially, it may hurt. It may scare you a bit. Heck, it may even crush your spirits. When you finally come to terms with this truth, you will also feel empowered and have renewed confidence.

    Here’s the simple truth. You are where you are today, because of the choices you made in the past. Whether you like your surroundings or not, you brought yourself here with your choices and actions. If you’re not happy with a certain part of your life, simply begin making different choices.

    A simple shift from blame to fully taking responsibility for your life. It’s a game changer.

    I once felt stuck, like a victim trapped by unpleasant circumstances. Remember, no one is trapping you or holding you hostage. Don’t like where your headed, stop, do a u-turn, and head in a different direction.

    P, P Subs, virtual sex, and all other forms of sex outside of real intercourse with a real woman is a false substitute. It will lead you down a road of guilt, shame, and ultimately destruction.

    Gotta remind myself everyday that I’m responsible. I decide what kind of person I’m becoming.

    Let’s keep pushing forward!

    All the Best,
    Vendidad, Black jack, Updesh and 6 others like this.
  8. bromor

    bromor Fapstronaut

    So Day 9 no M
    Day 226 no P

    I had a bad breakup yesterday. Got really mad. But I think I have reached the point that I do not turn to PMO to numb my feelings and just faced it. I got all these natural painful feelings of distrust, betrayal and anything related to having feelings for a person that treated you bad for no other apparent reason than that they don't know what they want and just play with you.

    I welcome those feelings so I learn for next time. Fuck her and fuck PMO too. There's plenty other better girls.

    I came across this video today which is just perfect for my situation:

    Have a nice day guys!
  9. Prabal Baishya

    Prabal Baishya Fapstronaut

    Day 38/90
    Rainy and cold day. Kept looking at the sky through my window and didn't even realise that I felt asleep on my desk untill my mom called me lol.
  10. Day 5 completed. Try to stay busy these days.
    Vendidad, Black jack, bromor and 9 others like this.
  11. Day 7/90
    Day 564 at attempting this challenge
    Day 193 weigh training (M, W, F)
    Lifestyle: reduced caffeine, alcohol and refined sugars

    One week in brothers! I'm still here and still trying for this illusive goal of 90 days.
    Vendidad, Black jack, bromor and 6 others like this.
  12. Thanks u 4 ur words and wishes,pal!
    I'm destined to win my life from this slavery.
  13. Gurdev Thakur

    Gurdev Thakur Fapstronaut

    i don't know why but i am facing urges right know and these are not my thoughts these are real urges ;; when i was studying i started getting urges for a female pornstar ;; my mind started getting thoughts to search her on youtube and look at her content but i will never do that ;; i know that this is the biggest trap ;;; also i closed youtube and will not open it untill the urges goes ;; i have done many mistakes and relapsed as i gave up on these urges in past but this time i will not give up
  14. Bethelightinmyheart

    Bethelightinmyheart Fapstronaut

    Day 12 checking in. Hey Guys, what's cooking!

    Going strong, feeling vital and great about myself..
  15. Da Khalo

    Da Khalo Fapstronaut

  16. Merry Terry

    Merry Terry Fapstronaut

    Day 19.
    I joined this forum 281 days ago. Of those 281 days, I was 246 days without M’ing to P.
  17. Golden-Balls

    Golden-Balls Fapstronaut

  18. 3/90. I've started my own recovery journal as well to help me stay even more transparent with myself.

    Remember, we only truly fail when we stop trying to quit :)

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