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  1. Lamboskovich

    Lamboskovich Fapstronaut

    Day 85/90

    5 more days to go. We’re almost there!

    Here’s a tough pill to swallow. Once you accept and apply this truth, your life will never be the same. The fog will start to clear. Initially, it may hurt. It may scare you a bit. Heck, it may even crush your spirits. When you finally come to terms with this truth, you will also feel empowered and have renewed confidence.

    Here’s the simple truth. You are where you are today, because of the choices you made in the past. Whether you like your surroundings or not, you brought yourself here with your choices and actions. If you’re not happy with a certain part of your life, simply begin making different choices.

    A simple shift from blame to fully taking responsibility for your life. It’s a game changer.

    I once felt stuck, like a victim trapped by unpleasant circumstances. Remember, no one is trapping you or holding you hostage. Don’t like where your headed, stop, do a u-turn, and head in a different direction.

    P, P Subs, virtual sex, and all other forms of sex outside of real intercourse with a real woman is a false substitute. It will lead you down a road of guilt, shame, and ultimately destruction.

    Gotta remind myself everyday that I’m responsible. I decide what kind of person I’m becoming.

    Let’s keep pushing forward!

    All the Best,
    Vendidad, Black jack, Updesh and 6 others like this.
  2. bromor

    bromor Fapstronaut

    So Day 9 no M
    Day 226 no P

    I had a bad breakup yesterday. Got really mad. But I think I have reached the point that I do not turn to PMO to numb my feelings and just faced it. I got all these natural painful feelings of distrust, betrayal and anything related to having feelings for a person that treated you bad for no other apparent reason than that they don't know what they want and just play with you.

    I welcome those feelings so I learn for next time. Fuck her and fuck PMO too. There's plenty other better girls.

    I came across this video today which is just perfect for my situation:

    Have a nice day guys!
  3. Prabal Baishya

    Prabal Baishya Fapstronaut

    Day 38/90
    Rainy and cold day. Kept looking at the sky through my window and didn't even realise that I felt asleep on my desk untill my mom called me lol.
  4. Day 5 completed. Try to stay busy these days.
    Vendidad, Black jack, bromor and 9 others like this.
  5. Day 7/90
    Day 564 at attempting this challenge
    Day 193 weigh training (M, W, F)
    Lifestyle: reduced caffeine, alcohol and refined sugars

    One week in brothers! I'm still here and still trying for this illusive goal of 90 days.
    Vendidad, Black jack, bromor and 6 others like this.
  6. Thanks u 4 ur words and wishes,pal!
    I'm destined to win my life from this slavery.
  7. Gurdev Thakur

    Gurdev Thakur Fapstronaut

    i don't know why but i am facing urges right know and these are not my thoughts these are real urges ;; when i was studying i started getting urges for a female pornstar ;; my mind started getting thoughts to search her on youtube and look at her content but i will never do that ;; i know that this is the biggest trap ;;; also i closed youtube and will not open it untill the urges goes ;; i have done many mistakes and relapsed as i gave up on these urges in past but this time i will not give up
  8. Bethelightinmyheart

    Bethelightinmyheart Fapstronaut

    Day 12 checking in. Hey Guys, what's cooking!

    Going strong, feeling vital and great about myself..
  9. Da Khalo

    Da Khalo Fapstronaut

  10. Merry Terry

    Merry Terry Fapstronaut

    Day 19.
    I joined this forum 281 days ago. Of those 281 days, I was 246 days without M’ing to P.
  11. Golden-Balls

    Golden-Balls Fapstronaut

  12. 3/90. I've started my own recovery journal as well to help me stay even more transparent with myself.

    Remember, we only truly fail when we stop trying to quit :)
  13. Lamboskovich

    Lamboskovich Fapstronaut

    Hello friends,

    I need to check-in with an update.

    I need to be Absolutely Honest with you guys, as I have been for the last 85 days.

    Last night, I made a poor decision to log in to the Ome.tv video chat website.

    I stayed on the site several hours and at one point, and although I didn’t M, I did O.

    I clearly defined video chat websites as P-subs in the parameters when I started the challenge.

    I believe 84 days is still an outstanding achievement, biggest streak of my life. I’m extremely proud of how far I’ve come. However, to be Honest with myself and all of you whom have journeyed alongside me, I will reset my counter.

    No matter how many valid justifications and reasons I can find for going on the video chat app, it doesn’t matter. It was a poor choice in a weak moment.

    We will make it to 90 again!

    I appreciate you guys.

    To Your Success,

    bthebest, edwinze, Vendidad and 11 others like this.
  14. VictoryIsOurs

    VictoryIsOurs Fapstronaut

  15. AxBlaim

    AxBlaim Fapstronaut

  16. MonkeyMonk

    MonkeyMonk Fapstronaut

  17. Gurdev Thakur

    Gurdev Thakur Fapstronaut

    it's day 7 ;; and it will be completed in 2 hours ;; i am really procrastinating so much and running from my studies ;; infact i want to study but i don't know why , i avoid all the things and procrastinate ;; also due to this i am not performing well in my classes and this time when i am writing this message , i am procrastinating ,, my mind always gave excuses and do not confront ;; i accept that i gets many barriers b/w me any my studies but i can also overcome them easily and i don't ;; instead of fighting those i gives up and use them as a excuse ;; i want to change my mindset to this and i will
  18. nfcard

    nfcard Fapstronaut

  19. John Call

    John Call Fapstronaut

  20. JimSwe

    JimSwe Fapstronaut

    Just about to go to sleep. I had a short breakdown tonight, felt depressed, stressed out at work and usally PMO to handle those things. But had no urges, nothing. Took some fresh air and talked to someone close to me and now I feel so much stronger. Day 4/90 completed!
    Vendidad, Black jack, AxBlaim and 5 others like this.

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