Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by 2525, Oct 27, 2017.

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  1. John Call

    John Call Fapstronaut

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    John Call Fapstronaut

  3. AxBlaim

    AxBlaim Fapstronaut

    I relate to these posts on another level so pardon me if this post is too long

    I was in this exact situation a couple of weeks ago where I had no willpower to resist when I had an urge. What helped me was 2 things:

    I realized that abstaining PMO for 20, 40 or even 90 days is nothing compared to abstaining it for a lifetime. Imagine this, endless motivation, endless happiness, ability to achieve your goals in life, fall in love. These are the traits that most of the people who havent been destructed from PMO has. We are living in a disadvantaged life compared to most of the people in this world so dont feel satisfied if you reached a certain number of days because the more you abstain, the closeer you get to the benefits we all deserve to have.

    Another thing is to envision my future. You know there are people who died with this addiction without living their life filled with happiness and love. Imagine yourself being in that situation. Life is too short, we could die in a couple of years, months or even days. There's a new version inside all of us when we abstain from PMO. All the enjoyments we can have in this life is heightned for us addicts because we're so used to feeling like shit created by PMO
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  4. AxBlaim

    AxBlaim Fapstronaut

  5. Updesh

    Updesh Fapstronaut

    Habit 1: waked up at 04:30 am done✔
    Habit 2: Morning ritual done ✔
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  6. Sri Ram Kumar

    Sri Ram Kumar Fapstronaut

  7. nfcard

    nfcard Fapstronaut

    Hi, I'd like to participate. I'm on day 4/90
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  8. stop_it_tommy

    stop_it_tommy Fapstronaut

  9. John Call

    John Call Fapstronaut

    you're welcome my friend, stay strong and finish this challenge till the end with us.
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  10. hellofriend86

    hellofriend86 Fapstronaut

  11. Relapsed this past weekend after a stressful few days and didn't follow my habits of putting my phone away at 9pm like I need to.


    I'm going to start my own recovery journal to help out more.
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  12. WaterNewt

    WaterNewt Fapstronaut

    YOU BASICALLY HAD SEX. How is that a relapse mate?

    Did you go for the no P M and O?
    Just hope that you are ok and that you aren't too hard on yourself. Be happy with you gf :)
  13. Well said my friend.
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  14. Vendidad

    Vendidad Fapstronaut

  15. edwinze

    edwinze Fapstronaut

    day 14/90 , never been this far . lets go
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  16. Blaze21

    Blaze21 Fapstronaut

    Day 15/90

    Felt very good today, I’m in my first day of the third week, feeling ver motivated and with my eyes opened. Let’s go brothers!
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  17. Libius

    Libius Fapstronaut

    Day 9/90 complete. Maybe I counted days wrong lol...

    **I was very depressed yesterday and feeling much better today; time is the greatest healer**
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  18. Lamboskovich

    Lamboskovich Fapstronaut

    Day 85/90

    5 more days to go. We’re almost there!

    Here’s a tough pill to swallow. Once you accept and apply this truth, your life will never be the same. The fog will start to clear. Initially, it may hurt. It may scare you a bit. Heck, it may even crush your spirits. When you finally come to terms with this truth, you will also feel empowered and have renewed confidence.

    Here’s the simple truth. You are where you are today, because of the choices you made in the past. Whether you like your surroundings or not, you brought yourself here with your choices and actions. If you’re not happy with a certain part of your life, simply begin making different choices.

    A simple shift from blame to fully taking responsibility for your life. It’s a game changer.

    I once felt stuck, like a victim trapped by unpleasant circumstances. Remember, no one is trapping you or holding you hostage. Don’t like where your headed, stop, do a u-turn, and head in a different direction.

    P, P Subs, virtual sex, and all other forms of sex outside of real intercourse with a real woman is a false substitute. It will lead you down a road of guilt, shame, and ultimately destruction.

    Gotta remind myself everyday that I’m responsible. I decide what kind of person I’m becoming.

    Let’s keep pushing forward!

    All the Best,
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  19. bromor

    bromor Fapstronaut

    So Day 9 no M
    Day 226 no P

    I had a bad breakup yesterday. Got really mad. But I think I have reached the point that I do not turn to PMO to numb my feelings and just faced it. I got all these natural painful feelings of distrust, betrayal and anything related to having feelings for a person that treated you bad for no other apparent reason than that they don't know what they want and just play with you.

    I welcome those feelings so I learn for next time. Fuck her and fuck PMO too. There's plenty other better girls.

    I came across this video today which is just perfect for my situation:

    Have a nice day guys!

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