[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by 2525, Oct 27, 2017.

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  1. Mansfelder

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    day 8, still going strong and actually completely forgotten about my challenge and porn... A good sign! however, I am sure the urges will be coming in 10 days;)
     
  2. Day 13/90
    Day 606 attempting this challenge
    Day 212 weight training (M, W, F)
    Lifestyle: reduced caffeine, alcohol and sweets
     
  3. VictoryIsOurs

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  4. Pone

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  5. Vendidad

    Vendidad Fapstronaut

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  6. AxBlaim

    AxBlaim Fapstronaut

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  7. Monke mode

    Monke mode Fapstronaut

  8. thabo

    thabo Fapstronaut

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    Yes originally from Ladybrand but currently in Lesotho
     
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  9. Gef 71

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  10. BurgerChamp

    BurgerChamp Fapstronaut

    It's been a while since I've been here. Day 3/90. Keep going ya'll!
     
    Black jack, Verissimus, Pone and 11 others like this.
  11. Blaze21

    Blaze21 Fapstronaut

    Day 58/90
    Let's go brothers! We can do this!
     
  12. BSF

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  13. bromor

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    Day 2 No M
    Day 269 No P

    Let's gooo :))

     
  14. Mr. Forrest

    Mr. Forrest Fapstronaut

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  15. Merry Terry

    Merry Terry Fapstronaut

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    Day 27.
    I joined this forum 324 days ago. Of those 324 days, I was 284 days without M’ing to P.
     
  16. Merry Terry

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    We have all been where you are now. And who knows, even though my streak is going quite well, I just might be where you are in a few days again.

    Perhaps this will help you though: it feels like the relapses come out of nowhere, but I've learned more and more that you prepare yourself for the relapse. The trick is to analyse your behavior from the days (or even weeks) before this big relapse. Maybe you were on Instagram or Youtube looking at women, maybe you were stressed, maybe you were thinking about the past a lot... And then the project is next time to catch yourself acting in this way that you now know will lead to a relapse, and then stop it. But maybe then you will still relapse, which is how you will learn that you stopped too late, that it was actually the behavior that you did before that - or the thinking behind that - that led to a relapse and you need to catch that next time. And so on.

    This is a long and painful process, but it's how you get to know yourself and thus how you can control yourself. And in this process, a relapse is not a loss, but just a moment of learning.
     
  17. Candeeiro

    Candeeiro Fapstronaut

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    Day 20, haven't Org..but it's been difficult to stay away from touching specially with gf doing videocalls
     
  18. Dragar

    Dragar Fapstronaut

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    It is day 9 today for me! Wish me luck.
     

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