Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by 2525, Oct 27, 2017.

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  1. bromor

    bromor Fapstronaut

    Day 0

    Need to get back on track and not use M as a stress relief for my current burnout. It did not feel that good anyway since my libido is really low.
    I am not quitting anyway!
    That aside ...

    @Pone Congrats man! Proud of you! @Fredi-the and @Merry Terry should be the ones next! Keep going guys! Nevermind my
    Mal oon, Toni7, Pone and 3 others like this.
  2. Congrats bro
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  3. Merry Terry

    Merry Terry Fapstronaut

    This is day 43 of 90.
    I joined this forum 373 days ago. Of those 373 days, I spend 332 days without doing PMO.
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  4. Merry Terry

    Merry Terry Fapstronaut

    Congratulations, man! So great to see people get there. Can you tell a bit about what your rules and methods were?
    Mal oon, bromor, Vendidad and 2 others like this.
  5. dfasfwesrw

    dfasfwesrw Fapstronaut

  6. Monke mode

    Monke mode Fapstronaut

  7. Taran7

    Taran7 Fapstronaut

    Strong urges today as expected after a relapse.I am trying to keep myself busy as much as i can.Staying strong!
  8. CrimsnBlade

    CrimsnBlade Fapstronaut

  9. CrimsnBlade

    CrimsnBlade Fapstronaut

    This is awesome. One day at a time!
    vicicool, bromor, Vendidad and 2 others like this.
  10. black shadow

    black shadow Fapstronaut

    Can't focus after relapse .actually whenever I relapse after a relapse it's hard to get on track.
    bromor, Vendidad, Toni7 and 2 others like this.
  11. dandausa

    dandausa Fapstronaut

    Starting it over. Here we go my friends! This definitely hurts. But how do we succeed? By never giving up and learning from our failures.
    CrimsnBlade, bromor, Vendidad and 2 others like this.
  12. Golden-Balls

    Golden-Balls Fapstronaut

    When such negative effects are visible, then PMOs Poison is starting to kill your body functions. The pleasure has become bad.
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  13. BSF

    BSF Fapstronaut

    Day 0

    Man, the first time I tried this, I made it to 3 weeks. Since then, I can't seem to make it longer than a week. I always start really strong, then I feel like urges are at a peak between days 7 and 15. During that time, I feel like I'm about to burst if I don't give in. I feel like all the rationale and motivation for staying strong goes right out the window. It's really frustrating, because the moment I do fall to temptation, my clarity returns, and I feel like an idiot for letting myself fall, or letting my resolve wear thin. Anyway, time to climb back up the hill. Gotta figure out a bette strategy for approaching Day 7-8, since I know that's when my urges peak.
  14. Golden-Balls

    Golden-Balls Fapstronaut

    I would say I actually found out the actual reasons as to why I kept on relapsing. And what caused me to start watching porn in the first place. When I understood those two then I started working on solving them.

    1. I was feeling lonely and always wanted to be in a social circle where am cared for. But then I noticed I was always expecting people to reach out and they would never reach out. I started to reach out and reconnect with my friends but I noticed my conversation skillz where poor I didn't know what to about when am talking to freinds, so I googled how and what to say when holding a conversation and I would apply the tips I got.
    The conversations made me forget about nofap cause I was having so much fun getting to know my freinds I never used to talk to. I would spend days without getting any urge or craving.

    2. I always wanted to be in relationships but I was very bad with girls upto this day I have never been with a girlfriend.
    I have been working on this for now three years since I started university upto now, meeting random girls and I talk to them. Through this process I gained confidence and courage to talk with girls. Its has also shaped me mentally and my conversation skillz. Really helped me develop emotional mature. Through the various experiences with the girls

    I used to ignore those emotions and they express themselves in form of a relapse. Since I didn't know what they where and how to deal with them when they appear. My determination and resolve where strong but emotions and feelings used come when i least expect them or when I was on the low and they hit me really hard.

    Now the final thing which helped me was to become self aware of any emotions and urges and craving I had.
    I started noticing which emotions and thoughts I would exprience when am exhausted, when happy, when am bored, when am anxious.
    I became fully aware of all those.
    Now I know when am exhausted or tired my brain will make me exprience alot of cravings for sex or porn, yet am just mentally tired and need rest.
    By becoming self aware of my emotions and thoughts, am now able understand what my body is expriencing and reacting according that.
    Mal oon, bromor, Vendidad and 4 others like this.
  15. jaybeard

    jaybeard Fapstronaut

    Day 25/90 completed.
    bromor, Pone, Vendidad and 1 other person like this.
  16. Mal oon

    Mal oon Fapstronaut

  17. Har-2410

    Har-2410 Fapstronaut

  18. AB.Wisher

    AB.Wisher Fapstronaut

    Day 1/90
    Last night woke up in the middle of the sleep with some dirty thoughts running in my mind. Lost a good amount of sleep with these dirty thoughts running in my mind. After lot of tossing in the bed fell back asleep.
    Now all these years of porn have had psychological effect. Now the greatest problem I face is that I check everyone out (Females) and everything out. Sexualise every situation. Hope I can come over it one day....
    Mal oon, bromor, Pone and 4 others like this.
  19. theCodingNerd

    theCodingNerd Fapstronaut

    just saw the counter - 39 days.
    will try to wake up early tomorrow sleeping like 5 hours today. lets see if i can do it or not. take care!
    Merry Terry, bromor, Pone and 5 others like this.

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