[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

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  1. Brahmacharya_UK

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    Hi all, I'm really appreciative to have this site and this resource. I have relapsed, 3 times in the last 3 days. I am definitely done with it now.

    I know the ultimate cause of my issues (Complex PTSD), and I know exactly who has inflicted it on me. She has abused me emotionally by only caring about herself.

    Even when I confront her, she will never own up. But I can't let that stop me, she is going to hear what I have to say, even if she don't listen.

    If she tries to turn it back on me (as she will) or start crocodile tears (as she will). I will be non-reactionary, matter of fact, unemotional, and will tell her what she has done.

    It's time to take my power back for myself and stop giving it to other people who don't deserve to have it.

    In other words it's time for me to grow the $%&# up. And fast, I've lost too much time to this disease and to my neuroses - all the crap that is holding me back from becoming the best version of myself.
     
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  2. Zori

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    Day 22 done
     
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  3. Zori

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    Thanks for posting this. We can face a lot of pain and shame in dealing with this addiction and this is a good reminder to be compassionate with ourselves along the way.
     
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  4. Solar_Two

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  5. OneSlipMan

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    Day 14/90!

    Still going!
     
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  6. Aufbruch

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    Hey,
    I'm in. Again.
    I once reached 28 Days. After that it got worser and worser. Then, for about a half year I wasn't active at nf.
    Now I am back with new motivation and a new focus.
    Day 0
     
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  7. dandausa

    dandausa Fapstronaut

    Day 4/90. My thoughts have definitely been more sexual lately. I got to wrap them up and hand them to God.
     
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  8. CrimsnBlade

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    Day 52 complete.

    Still taking it one day at a time. Trying to maintain awareness of where I am emotionally. I had no idea when I started this journey how important this is.
     
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  9. laserfish30

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    Good for you for realizing that you need change in your life man. I applaud you for also not wanting relationships that would only break you down. But if I were you, I would run away completely from this relationship you have with this girl. I wouldn't even bother talking to her anymore if it is going to mess you up in the long run. Sometimes its best to cut people like that completely off from your life for your sake. But either way, good luck!
     
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  10. StartingToRecover

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    Relapsed this morning:/ Day 0 again.
    Need to figure out something better to do when horny... Felt that all day yesterday and woke up this morning like that. Hoping next time the urge hits I will have a better way to deal with it
     
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  11. DannyMalibu

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    Wow man! Congrats!
     
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  12. DannyMalibu

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    Heads up, tomorrow is a new day!
     
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  13. Day 67/90 no PMO
    Day 1 no porn subs
    Day 678 attempting this challenge
    Global Counter 95% success since joining
    Day 243 weight training (M, W, F)
    Lifestyle: reduced caffeine, alcohol, and sweets, Facebook

    Okay, I am officially tied my record of 67 days no PMO set about 6 years ago before I even joined nofap. I experimented with noPMO after watching Gary Wilson's video, "The Great Porn Experiment" and have been struggling to do as well ever since. As I didn't succeed each time, my confidence would drop. It was then that I realized this really is an addiction and have been plugging away at it ever since. Tomorrow is virgin ground day count wise and I hope to keep it going to 90 days this time. No more porn subs now either as I can't afford a relapse.
     
    Last edited: Dec 4, 2020
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  14. HelloWorld!!

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    Hello, I am on day 7. I want to be in this challenge.
     
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  15. Monke mode

    Monke mode Fapstronaut

  16. Dares Greeneye

    Dares Greeneye Fapstronaut

    83:emoji_ballot_box_with_check: I know it's not the same for any two people, but for me it's still very hard to cope with the urges. Actually I would say that my first month was easier than the start of this december, but it may be also because the addiction maybe sort of "realised" that it's being cut out and now it's structures are starving, and so it's trying hard to make me relapse. Welp, one week to go; I know I can reach it, but I will have to fight the biggest urges I had on this entire streak so far (except for the first 14 days which were hell too). Seems almost like a minor boss fight when you are finishing a chapter in some games, haha :emoji_laughing:
     
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  17. Icandothis49

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    Ok here i go to day 1
    Day 0/90( day 1 in progress)
    Day 0/90(( of No PMO)
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  18. NF_meditation

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    I relapsed last night. I've relapsed twice now in the past 30 days and both times I didn't use porn. I haven't looked at porn for over 30 days but I feel like my body just needs to release after a certain amount of time. It's easy for me to not look at porn but avoiding orgasm and is very difficult for me. Anyone with simmilar problems and advice? I wanted to go the 90 days with no PMO to prove to myself that porn masturbation wasn't an addiciton but maybe my addicition is just masturbation. Anyways, gonna start again. I need to work on a new mindset or else I will fail once again.
     
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  19. locked boy nyc

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    Day 7/90. Today has been fairly easy so far just because I've been so busy packing. My partner and I are moving to a new apartment day after tomorrow, so the next few days will be very full of activity, which helps a lot. That said, I'm about to hop in the shower and that's the main place where I slip up and PMO because it's one of the only places where my partner won't know. I can already feel a small part of my brain tugging me in that direction, but I'm just going to ignore it and get it done as fast as possible.

    It's a pretty great time in my reboot to be moving to a new apartment too. I was thinking today, I'll move in to a place where I have no established habits or routines, and a place where I've never looked at P or MOed ever before. Is it crazy to wonder if maybe I can leave PMO behind entirely? New home, new start? If I can make it the rest of this challenge, I will have lived there for 81 days without PMO. Maybe that will be an incentive to just never PMO there, ever. It's something to think about anyway :)
     
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