[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by 2525, Oct 27, 2017.

Do you want to participate?

  1. Yes

  2. No, probably later

Results are only viewable after voting.
  1. ssmike100

    ssmike100 Fapstronaut

    29
    39
    18
    Impressive number of days. What is your current relapse criteria? What was it when you first started and what might you change it to? Good luck forever!
     
    Vendidad, dandausa, bromor and 3 others like this.
  2. Day 8 Checking In .
     
    Last edited by a moderator: Jan 8, 2021
    Vendidad, dandausa, bromor and 4 others like this.
  3. ahh. .Sad to hear that. Don't loose hope .You got that Potential dude.
    GOOD LUCK!
     
    Vendidad, dandausa, bromor and 3 others like this.
  4. Alex Reboot

    Alex Reboot Fapstronaut

    120
    890
    93
  5. RestartGame_

    RestartGame_ Fapstronaut

    130
    824
    93
    Day 9.

    Refreshing my reasons to quit.

    - I'm chronically tired.
    - I have this stomach issue I need to fix and abstinence is going to aid the healing.
    - I want to be prepared for when worse times come (because, seeing how things are, it isn't that far away from the possibility).
    I want to be more efficient in attracting the good things and be in a more positive vibration.
    - I want to finally be more confident, no lack of self-esteem, no running-away-instinct. I want to have a girlfriend, good relationships, a fulfilling life and a clean slate before I die.

    Journal Entry.

    This morning, I was going to, once again, stay in bed and oversleep. However I received a task from work, so that gave me a sense of urgency to stand up from bed.
    So I stood up, and as I was going for the bathroom, surprisingly, the cleaning lady was there, and well I just waited until she was done.
    I washed my face and head with cold water and got right to work. In the meantime I had some breakfast.
    During this day no cravings. I have to say though, the first days were tough. I had to fight for like 2-3 days straight, but since then, no cravings.
    So I got to be prepared for the next "attack". It is doubtlessly going to be more intense and require more preparedness from my side, which comes in the form of simply writing in the journal. Because the best way that, I think, to be prepared for the big ones, is having a solid mindset and be exactly sure what to do instead of acting out.
    So I am making sure, I write down as much as I can, without wearing myself out in the process.
    So I continue watching series and movies and maybe play some video games. I have an accountability partner that I talk to every day. We often have great conversations.
    Sometimes I get a negative mood swing and the conversation kinda drags itself. But, really, this is more than I could ask for.

    Guys make sure you get an accountability partner. We need it now more than ever.

    Keep going strong!
     
  6. Say_Goodbye

    Say_Goodbye Fapstronaut

    233
    1,213
    123
    Relapsed yesterday, on Day 9, I had plans to start and finish the year clean. But it's okay, the journey still continues.

    I learned one thing however,from that one relapse.
    "Edging"..... Never edge. I saw an image of a really Hot Girl, "short mini skirtt beautiful legs and toes" , a few days ago, which naturally was a trigger... And I decided to binge instagram, browsing instagram models. Two days straight and Eventually I gave in to Porn. No matter what don't give in to urges, and do not edge. Even if it's looking up hot girls on social media, do not do it.

    I have fallen so many times to this. It needs to stop.

    Don't tempt the devil, to tempt you. Don't edge.
     
    Vendidad, dandausa, bromor and 4 others like this.
  7. Teutão

    Teutão Fapstronaut

    351
    2,636
    123
    Day 1/90
    2021 Global Counter: 7/8
     
    Vendidad, dandausa, bromor and 4 others like this.
  8. break the limits

    break the limits Fapstronaut

    269
    1,131
    123
  9. Icandothis49

    Icandothis49 Fapstronaut

    62
    382
    53
    (100 points)
    Everytime i look at to porn,nudes,etc -5 points
    Everytime i masturbate -10 points
    Everytime i touch my genitals -3 points
    If my point hits to zero I'm going back to day 1
    DAY 3/90( Day 3 in progress)(of no O)
    DAY 3/90( Of No PM)
    DAY 3[✓]
    DAY 7[]
    DAY 10[]
    DAY 14[]
    DAY 21[]
    DAY 32[]
    DAY 64[]
    DAY 82[]
    DAY 90[]
     
    Vendidad, dandausa, bromor and 3 others like this.
  10. Nekkhamma

    Nekkhamma Fapstronaut

    1,224
    4,956
    143
    27 days done...one more...one more...one more...if I redirect my mind and body towards healthy, productive, and good things when I want to look at porn, and if I remind myself of all the reasons I don’t want to look at porn today, I’ll get one more day
     
    Mya, Teutão, HIMAN_R and 7 others like this.
  11. Puretim

    Puretim Fapstronaut
    NoFap Defender

    815
    3,421
    123
    I'm curious why the winter makes it harder.
     
    HIMAN_R, Vendidad, dandausa and 3 others like this.
  12. Puretim

    Puretim Fapstronaut
    NoFap Defender

    815
    3,421
    123
    Excellent job on successfully completing the challenge. The 90 days are over but the addiction never is and ideally neither is the commitment to recovery. Stay strong on your journey.
     
    Vendidad, Nekkhamma, dandausa and 3 others like this.
  13. Puretim

    Puretim Fapstronaut
    NoFap Defender

    815
    3,421
    123
    A girl I hadn't seen in about 8 years contacted me to say hello and see how I was doing. We chatted back and forth for a couple days and I asked if she was a dancer. She said yes and I texted that the shape of her legs and the way she sometimes moved made it apparent. She replied that me remembering the shape of her legs was creepy. I felt a sense of shame on reading that. I need to get away from objectifying and sexualizing women. After responding " that I dont know what to say to that" I deleted the conversation and her contact info. Oh well...On the plus side I abstained another day from pmo. One day at a time.
     
    Mya, HIMAN_R, Vendidad and 6 others like this.
  14. the_wizard

    the_wizard Fapstronaut

  15. bromor

    bromor Fapstronaut

    621
    4,817
    123
    Day 11 yey!

    Yes, my streak so far has been very clean all thanks to stopping using instagram a month ago. I used to constantly go to the search bar which brings all these suggestions of images - in my case sexy model profiles that lead to more sexy model profiles, borderline naked women. And you keep lying to yourself - yes but its just pics, yes but they aren't actually naked, there is no sex here - so it's fine... well it really is not fine. Triggers all day, then edging and then M which depending on your case can lead to P. Not worth it dude - you will be much calmer if you don't do that and in my opinion - deactivating your insta at least for a while to get you used to not searching for that - will help you a long way!

    Best to all of you guys!

    My daily improvement/inspiration haha
     
    the_wizard, Pone, Puretim and 6 others like this.
  16. OneSlipMan

    OneSlipMan Fapstronaut

  17. HealthierLife86

    HealthierLife86 Fapstronaut

    156
    787
    93
  18. dandausa

    dandausa Fapstronaut

    Day 6 done. Really thought about relapsing this morning. But I went to an SA meeting instead. Still feeling that pull though.
     
    the_wizard, bromor, Pone and 5 others like this.
  19. HolySpirit

    HolySpirit Fapstronaut

    48
    218
    33

Share This Page