[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

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  1. Talz

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    Day 13

    I got things to say... But maybe I'll save it for tomorrow. The main point is I made it through another day, although I think the victories ring a bit hallow these days. My conviction isn't completely back after all and I think part of me just wants to relapse. I know that'll just set me back more though.

    I originally just wanted to beat pied and learn how to have better relationships with women. I'm sure it's behind my ED (at least I hope that's all it is). It just annoys and concerns me that even after completing 90 days that wasn't enough to fix the problem. Granted I did relapse and binge a bit prior, and it was with a pretty abusive ex so I don't know... Those things might have mattered. I have a fear now that nofap can't help me with this problem, and that's affecting my motivation I think.

    I just shouldn't have relapsed to begin with. I'm frustrated to be retracing my steps still and feel like I ended up making no progress. That can't be true though as 13 days used to seem like a massive streak to me. I couldn't make it through a day for much of my life (heck even only once a day was impossible it had to be a bunch), and I did this pretty easily compared to before. The addiction has been considerably (and I mean considerably) weakened compared to what it was, so my quest here on this forum must have done something.

    Maybe it's just that nofap doesn't excite me anymore. I think I used to get a dopamine rush from getting streak numbers I never thought I could get. When I'm lacking in motivation I know I just need to buckle down and be consistent though, so I won't give up. Guess I ended up saying a certain amount anyway.
     
  2. Talz

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    I'm in Canada, but the area I'm in is now cut off from the rest of the country and a lot of the farms in the region were completely destroyed.
     
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  3. Visperad

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  4. Say_Goodbye

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    I always relapse at midnight as well. Or early morning after a porn binge.... I should also avoid this thing of using the internet or phone after 11 pm at night
     
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  5. Say_Goodbye

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    Most people were cured from pied in no less than 7 months..... So if you are expecting to see changes with Ed, atleast it should take that long, another guy was completely healed after 1.5 years of no pmo. So 90 days isn't going to fix most of The problems we face due to pmo, but it starts rewiring the brain, for new habits.
     
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  6. Mr. Dragon

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    Day 15/90 completed (L3)
     
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  7. Aspect_16

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  8. Day 17

    @Kairose big congratulations! Keep going!
     
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  9. Bijuu107

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    YOU BEAST. Awesome. :emoji_muscle::emoji_thumbsup:

    Day 15
     
  10. Bijuu107

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    I would be careful, because working a lot can also be a method to escape from yourself. Since I,m meditating and also feel relativly good with myself, it,s easier even if I have nothing to do. Also Meditating on the urges helps me a lot, even in the free time.
     
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  12. Ketherlonk

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    Wow, that is chilling, and so true. Thanks for the reminder that porn is slowly killing our souls.
     
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  14. Ketherlonk

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    Those are huge wins. And my first 1-2 weeks here felt exactly like you describe: I couldn't focus on my work, thought a lot about watching P, etc. And about wasting your time, I'd say be easy on yourself. If you had to waste time to fight off your urge and managed to do it, it was worth it. It will get better and easier.
     
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  17. bromor

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    Aw man that sounds tough - why is the area cut off? Covid? and how comes there are farms destroyed
     
  18. GonnaBeAGod

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    Thanks a lot man.
     
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  20. Sasukee !!

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    Day 10 complete !
    It mostly went as planned. I did some workout in the morning. Eat healthy food. In last 2 days, I eat some outside unhealthy food and was upset about that. Studied a little, not enough though. And also I'm sleeping late. Was stuck in some work. These 2 things I want to improve tomorrow : Will study a little more and sleep a little earlier. I'll just strive to remain consistent and improve little by little every day.

    Hope you all are doing great :). We'll definitely make it ! Keep going and All The Best !!
     

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