[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

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  1. Haladavar

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    Everyone, I'd say the #1 thing that has prevented me from relapsing is going to bed straight after I'm finished for the day. DO NOT use your phone at night; keep it far away from you.
     
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  3. hewm

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    Day 69.
    Let me just say it. I've been peeking recently. I didn't outright search for porn, but my mind made me type related keywords, so that erotic stuff would appear in the search results. I know this is no excuse. They may call it different names but anything erotic that gives a dopamine rush is basically porn.
    I didn't masturbate but spent a solid 10 minutes looking on youtube. So did I relapse?
    Anyway, let's keep going on this journey.
    Any advice for me?
     
  4. MHero

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    Can you please tell me how did you blocked porn at home? I would like to do the same thing.
    Actualy i use a safe browser on my phone plus a blocker up, but my security system still weak.

    can you tell please which app you use?

    Day 4,
    I do not feel confident :(
    I feel that i'm way behind others in life, i see others more successful than me. Feeling that way makes me regret some missed opportunities in personal and social life. For example recently i wanted very badly to talk to a girl after 1 year. In the end i refrained because chasing her wont do me any good, ill look creepy.

    I feel that way when im depressed, so yeah i shall feel better soon.
     
  5. MHero

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    You did not relapse, though do not peek again. Good luck.
    I advise you blocking porn access completely, which im trying to do too.
     
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  6. Mike10classic

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    Day 12/90. Urges and near relapses. Still here....let's go!!!!
     
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  7. Visperad

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  8. Idf1998

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    No its not a relapse or not even a slip. But its good way to fail. It made me fail a lot of times especially in the first weeks
     
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  9. Idf1998

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    I use Adguard and i let my brother to block the acess to perental control with a password that i will never guess. But for the phone just the iphone parental control in setting , with the same thing with the password. And i can relate to your problem … i am in the dating apps and its not working for me … and recently i destroyed opportunitie with some girl i liked and it cause me to return to porn and failed after 93 days. One thing i know even after so long. pmo still ambush me in every turn. But i am not so upset on the failure, i just have so much rage and anger in the last few days , any advices?
     
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  10. OMINI MAN

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  11. NewbieGains101

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    Day 3 no porn. Allowing masturbation to fantasies of real life previous partners only. I know this isn't hard mode but I deem porn to be my biggest problem
     
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  12. nfpexperiment

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  13. Sougo

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  14. PeaceOnEarth108

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  15. Dioplleo_547

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  16. Mr. Dragon

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  17. For me any artificial stimulation that releases dopamine counts as a relapse. If it was by accident I wouldn't count it but if I search it intentionally I would count it as a relapse since the negative habit is being reinforced.
     
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