[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

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  1. Zori

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    Day 10 done.

    Just a thought about our common experience of relapsing frequently while trying to complete these challenges. I have had the same results, with occasional longish streaks of NoFap broken by periods where I've been resetting frequently or giving up on it for a while. This seems to be so common, that for me I'm trying to see success in terms of each day that I keep to my no PM goal, and how it made that day a better one for me. For that day, I wasn't doing something that I felt bad about, I was more open to other people, my mind was less tossed about by every sexual stimulus, I had more energy to give to other, more beneficial things. I'm sure there are lots of other things others could add as well.

    Doing challenges and focusing on streaks can add a bit of motivation to get us through strong urges, but it can also be detrimental if it's our only way of defining our success or failure. Every single day of NoFap can be celebrated.
     
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  2. Toni7

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  3. Phil 3:12-16

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  4. break the limits

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  5. bookblooming

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    And again a fall, though during the day which is atypical. Will start to focus on implementing a good bedtime routine.

    Day 0
     
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  6. Redfire

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  7. Pylos

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    Day 1/90 completed
     
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  8. JayJay2008

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    Sorry I forgot to post on Day 90 but I'm on day 92
     
  9. mml2

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  10. Visperad

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  11. GryzzlyMischka

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    Day 4 (2): it was also uneasy. But still, it was a good start of the weekend. As I said before, I hit the gym. Yet, I'm waking up with some kind of dizziness in my head. Can't understand why. Maybe it's a heat, maybe something else. The only thing I understand right now: I sleep badly despite the early timing, I waking up is also became a hard part.
     
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  12. Apple Mozart

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    Day 50.

    I will not PMO today because I want to reach 90 days.
     
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  13. Toni7

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  14. Karom

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    I agree wholeheartedly!!! :):) Let's do it. I am absolutely psyched to do the 40 km challenge with you and to keep up with our streak. Let's go!!!!
     
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  15. ShinyTurtle

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    Day 18/90

    20% done wowsors.
    Have to say, yesterday/today were definitely the toughest on me, lots of urges and almost broke my streak... I have to stay alert. Maybe I will actually go for a run to clear my mind.
     
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  16. Zori

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  17. Jiminy Cricket

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    Nice, man! respect


    I'm on day 2 again.
     
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  18. Phil 3:12-16

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  20. Karom

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    20/90- 20 days again! Feeling really good. However, the urges are high. Recently, I have been putting myself in very uncomfortable situations to try and conquer my fears. To overcome my fear of snakes, I visited a snake park last week and have been subsequently watching videos of snakes on YouTube daily. I am still scared of snakes for obvious reasons but my fear of them is slowly waning. I am actually beginning to see that snakes are actually quite misunderstood. Following on the theme of being uncomfortable, I accompanied my girlfriend to a get together of her friends yesterday. That in itself was nerve wrecking. Meeting new people is a very uncomfortable experience for me and makes me very nervous. I handled it well enough until the point where we were all to sing karaoke. Despite my refusal, the crowd was not taking no for an answer. I gathered the courage, chose a song and sang along. It was terrible for the first minute hearing my out of tune voice but after that I started to enjoy it. I stopped being self aware and did it. I was so happy. I later sang karaoke with my girlfriend which for me was really great. I still can't believe that was me who sung in front of a group of people. Fear has really held me back from life. Not any more!
     
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