[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

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  1. Keep at it! The difficulty of today will pass...
     
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  2. day 0/90 sorry fellow nofappers I relapse again! try and try until you succeed! :)
     
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  3. Phoenix1

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    Day 14 completed...76 days to go
     
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  4. devo42

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    day 2.
     
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  5. rewiring4good

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    Congratulations @kero sen!
     
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  6. MWM89

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    Day 0.
     
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  7. welldag

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    cheking in for day 22. feeling good, without PMO urges, but using NoFap forums to avoid my responsibilities. This is all for today, I gotta get back to work
     
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  8. HumbleMS

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    46. The more aware you stay about your problem and the actions which can trigger it, i think it become easier to get control over your sexual life.
     
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  11. ceetee9559

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    Day 20/21 I was extremely busy and that's a great thing!
     
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  12. rewiring4good

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  13. rewiring4good

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    What I am posting is in my journal.However, because I believe it shows the root of the problem and in case you missed it, here it is.
    Here's some key advice by a member with +500 days without P.

    I feel like basically I've grown up. Remember when you're little and you're told you can't have that toy in the store but you really really want it so you start a tantrum, crying, mumbling and kicking. that's a bit like the level of emotional maturity for a porn addict. An adult in a similar situation say, they are with their partner and they wanted to buy something and the partner says 'honey we can't afford it' you might say 'ah that's a shame, maybe in a few months then' so the reaction is less severe, many of us have sought to adapt our social behaviours out of necessity in order to get along with people and work professionally etc but when it comes to sex and especially pornography, a lot of the emotional behaviour hasn't changed since we were first exposed to it as adolescents.

    Have you thought about reading stories about inspirational women or thinking about the women in your life who have influenced you. I believe once you start to nurture respect and admiration you startto lose the selfish degredation. It takestime though so it's important to bepatient.
     
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  14. AtticusEnd

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    The start of day 29 with no PMO... Almost 1/3 of the way there...
     
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  15. Jamity

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    Day 4 for me
     
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  16. Hattori Hanzo

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    Day 7 (no pmo hardmode):
    One week down.
    So far it was easier than I thought.
    I hope the urges stop at some point.

    Edit: Urges are hitting harder than expected today.
     
    Last edited: Apr 25, 2018
  17. claymen

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    Relapsed. I stand for 6 days only.
    0/90
     
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