[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

That reddit link was amazing..

 

Day 5 successful

 

Day 1

 

i am in
day 0 of 90

 

day 5..lifting and running until i have no urges...can be a slight solution to get over a temptation

 

13/90
01/5 months

 

Day 16

 

Day 22 awesome day today drew something very cool

 

good luck

 

that´s addictions, no doubt.

 

"Porn changes the way you think about people, people become objects, people become body parts; they become things to be used rather than people to be loved.” Terry Crews

 

Day 1

 

Day 54/90.

 

0/90
was a hard day yesterday ...

 

Is alright bro always bounce back and do better than last time

 

1 day

 

Day 5/90

 

Day 16

 

Here is what I believe depicts the root of the problem and is some key advice by a member with 500 + days without P.

I feel like basically I've grown up. Remember when you're little and you're told you can't have that toy in the store but you really really want it so you start a tantrum, crying, mumbling and kicking. That's a bit like the level of emotional maturity for a porn addict. An adult in a similar situation say, they are with their partner and they wanted to buy something and the partner says 'honey we can't afford it' you might say 'ah that's a shame, maybe in a few months then' so the reaction is less severe, many of us have sought to adapt our social behaviours out of necessity in order to get along with people and work professionally etc but when it comes to sex and especially pornography, a lot of the emotional behaviour hasn't changed since we were first exposed to it as adolescents.

Have you thought about reading stories about inspirational women or thinking about the women in your life who have influenced you? I believe once you start to nurture respect and admiration you start to lose the selfish degredation. It takes time though,so it's important to be patient.I am at 8 days now and I relish each day porn free,so I can rewire the brain and reach my full potential in my social and business life.

 

Day 6 of 90. Wow, there is a lot of stress hitting me. I'm behind others and I feel like I'm going to explode soon. I am doing my exercises which lessen the pain but until j finish it, I don't think I can rest. 84 days remaining