Day 28/90 today is the day I beat my personal record, I am very happy and motivated right now! LEt's keep going brothers!!
Day 76, almost there. I'm working on getting closer to my girlfriend, without pmo of course. I haven't told her about my past porn addiction, but that will come up soon. I'm on winter vacation, and I notice she preoccupies my mind Mich like porn used to. The difference is that shes real, and I actually love her. I also dreamed that I reset and felt really guilty, but I think this was only a dream.
well, i don´t want to be mean, but technically that´s a relapse. you did masturbate, you didn´t finish it´s true, but you masturbate, so it´s a relapse. anyways if resetting the counter will demotivate you, then don´t reset, keep going and be very careful the next days cause the images will appear again in your head. avoid idle situations.
you´re seeing it wrong. what would happen after 90 days? you´ll be free that´s right. but your life would be quite similar to what is now = a life without porn. so don´t worry in what day you are, focus on creating and living fully a life without porn. we´re not were to count how many days we can abstain, that´s only a reference. we are backing each other on the creation of new life!! porn free. so go bro, live in the day, live in the now.
well bro, a piece of advice i learn on my own. boredom takes over when you´re not fully enjoying what you´re doing. you can see when boredom takes over: you´re zapping the tv, you eat shits, basically you´re doing something that you are not passionate about. one good way you can deal with boredom is ask yourself this: "right now, what do i really wanna do?" let the answer come or multiple answers, and go for what triggers you the most. even if you don´t feel like doing nothing, there´s always a little motivation for something, even if it´s only 5%. but go for it, go for the 5. the problem with boredom is that it puts a veil in your head, a dizziness, and you don´t see cleary what you really wanna do. that´s why it´s important to stop and look more deeply. after you finish that task you´ll feel your blood pumping again and energy comes back. after that it´s a rollercoaster of activities that will naturally pop up. just follow the trail
