Dear Sir, I am grateful to you. You were the one who gave my account the first like ( & unexpressed motivation ). Seeing your counter at 20Days, I respect your self-control and self-discipline. I just want to request you to be my ACCOUNTABILITY MENTOR on this forum with whom I can particularly report the relapse event to held myself accountable and less indulged. If you find it suitable, comfortable and time permissible, please accept my request. If you wish, I too can volunteer to be your Accountability 'partner' in return. Thanks.
Hi, sure I don't mind, I am not great at being an accountability partner as you can see from my previous posts that I too have struggled, I am happy to help anyway I can. I am just trying to get through week by week, it's very tough. I try to come on here at least once a day to look for answers and then click away because, I feel that if I think about my situation too much I will get stressed by it and theres more chance I will fail. I have deleted my social media, Facebook,WhatsApp etc which is a little excessive I know but needed to be done, I want to avoid porn at all costs and its working for me. I am going to Thailand in November which is giving me motivation right now. I remember I lasted over 2 months last year and what helped me was a change in diet, cutting out chocolate and soda anything sweet because it triggers my urges.
. Thanks for replying and acknowledging. I just want to be in contact with people with whom I can learn and find solutions for upcoming worries, and in few moments get some inspiration and motivation. Your previous replies and this reply gets me to think that I will be greatly helped by you. Plus, I admire you among the few people who at least keep replying and motivating the struggling soldiers. Regarding your step "I have deleted my social media, Facebook,WhatsApp etc which is a little excessive I know but needed to be done"- in spite of being novice here, I would like to quote the source: Rebooting as the Best Remedy (Season 1-40) Author: Soaring Eagle (飞翔),Translated by: HMHU, which testifies and suggest similar steps that you are taking. And your diet strategy too goes the same. So as you yourself said- your actions are nowhere excessive, but the very necessary step in this streak. Good luck for the upcoming streaks.
Into Day 2. @the_thinker How are you getting on? Put up a PMO tracker and let's get to 21 Days and see how we are. Hang in there @12ove
I got past 100 days and then slipped up and fapped to porn a few times. Felt like shit afterwards. Have set s new goal of a full year with NoFap or porn. Does anyone know how to reset your profile? I have set up a counter on my phone
It looks like you figured it out @Saoconrado40 . I am sorry to hear about you feeling like shit afterwards, but remember after all Ming is natural for humans, and being attracted to P is also...we have to remember that the fight we are fighting is of the most importance but an occasional loss should not be looked at so negatively. We are all battling for our own reasons, and most of them are because we need to get control of our habbit that has turned into an addiction and has started to erode the other qualities of our life that we care about. Whenever an addiction starts to get in the way it is time to do something about it. Be strong and try not to be hard on yourself. 100 days is incredible!
Yes 100 days is an amazing achievement and to be fair I feel you're pretty much cured? I know you relapsed a few times but you're not feeding your addiction day to day like you were when before right? Therefore you're nearly there! Anyways you shouldn't feel too down mate, you've managed to achive something we are all graving for and that's to reach 90 days. Let's keep eachother motivated. I feel when one of us is truly in need of help (urging crazy) then we should post here straight away and inbox too, I am sure we can disuade one another from M'ing?
Thanks for the support. What hurt me was when I stopped checking in here. I found that kept me accountable! Looking forward to seeing how far I can go this time.’I never thought I would make it past 100 days that’s for sure!
I like this a lot, I'm right behind you. Would love nothing more than to reach those high numbers. Strength!
Thanks mate good to be back on this site and back on the straight and narrow! Honestly my mood and confidence was incredibly positive during my 100 day plus streak- that’s my motivation to do this, to get that back
I mean at our age twice a week would be normal if it was just a quick release and not an obsession type thing, like mine turned into. P has taken M an entirely new direction and it has become not normal for me. I am happy that we are fighting the hard fight!
I’m only 1.5% of the way to achieving my goal, but every journey starts with a first step. I’m really pumped to go a whole year without PM, they have been a horrible influence on my life for way too long. Will be checking in here regularly to stay focused, last time I slipped up when I stopped doing that. Still got to over 100 days though which I never imagined was possible, used to beat it to porn daily and it really does warp your mind
