90-Day Challenge

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by painless_band-aid, Mar 19, 2019.

  1. roughjourney

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    You made it to day 4. You beat me LOL Great job buddy. Keep it up. I would like to see you at 90 days.
     
  2. Some Username

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  3. Carmo

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  4. renard49

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    Checking in! Completely focused on without PMO and semen retention!
     
  5. cellowmar

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  6. roughjourney

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    I had an exam today. It was tough. I had anxiety and stress which cause strongest urge. I know I can do it. Finished second day strong. See you guys tomorrow again.
     
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  10. painless_band-aid

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    Day 6/90
    I was studying my exams, now im free. It means that I will be here more often :)
    The urges comes and goes but i am learning how to live with them, not getting rid of it.
     
  11. Carmo

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    Day 13/90
    Hugs to everyone who's pulling through.
     
  12. renard49

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    Checking in! A little at a time I'm feeling much better without PMO! Everybody stay focused on your goals for a better life!
     
  13. AAR99

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    I've just started. On Day 1!
     
  14. renard49

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    @AAR99 Congrats for you to take this challenge on! Keep your focus on your improvement and don't second thought yourself. Keep going!
     
  15. roughjourney

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    My mind starts to wonder. It keeps telling me it is okay to hire an escort. No no. That is not okay. Get out there and get a real relationship. You should not look at a woman as a sex object, but an individual. Lust is a bad character. Get it out of the way. Your life is short. You may have a good time at the moment, but after finished, you will feel bad. You will worry about contracting all kind of disease. It will keep you up all night. You should use that time to develop yourself rather spending time on worry. Shut up and be courage to talk to a girl. Learn to have and keep a relationship.
     
  16. painless_band-aid

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    Welcome the challenge mate!
     
  17. painless_band-aid

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    I think that hiring an escort and watching P are the same thing. As you said, both make you look at a woman as a sex object. We are here to reset our mind about sex and heal. You know what you should do and that is all matter! I am sure that you are on the path mate! Stay strong
     
  18. Stop76

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    Hi guys I relapsed last Thursday...I failed. I did not watch any kind of porn but I did masturbate. I could not handle the urges to masturbate. Now I will try again to get the 90-day streak PMO, but I do not know how..
     
  19. painless_band-aid

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    I think you should stop pressuring yourself about the urges. The urges are always there, in your body. If you try to dispose of them, they will hit you much more. When you feel the urges, don't panic. Those are temporary, you can be sure of that. When your mind starts telling you that watching p one more time is not gonna ruin your healing process, don't listen to it. It just wants to get its dopamine. If you think that the urges start to hit really hard, go outside for walking. I believe you should know that the urges are like energy. Let the energy flow in your body. If all of these seem like not working, ask that question to yourself "5-min joy and feeling compunction about it, or a little bit fight against the urges and living a happy life. Which one do you prefer?"
    All the people in here are trying to make a new life for their selves. They get new hobbies or start doing old hobbies all over again, make new friends, socialize. I think we should accept the fact that PMO is a habit and the only one of getting rid of a habit is to make a new one.
    Stay Strong man. I know it is not easy but no road of victory are not full of flowers.
     
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