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90 Day Fappers Detox. Do it.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by IamMike, Mar 31, 2016.

  1. the_navigator

    the_navigator Fapstronaut

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    I have been finding that my inner addict is starting to get "annoyed" with me. Behaviors and ideas (sexual) that I didn't find interesting are now "interesting". It's almost like a kid if he doesn't find a way to get what he wants he is going to manipulate the situation to do so. I am really enjoying the clarity and the ability to live in the moment. However the past couple of days have been a bit rough, no acting out in any way (on a 90 day reboot), but the thoughts are definitely there and getting a little stronger.

    That being said when I am having really weak moments I am either removing myself from the potential to act out, contacting my sponsor or getting on this site then posting or reading.

    Totally committed but taking it one day at a time.
     
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  2. IamMike

    IamMike Fapstronaut

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    We're over one Month in already!! It's been an unbelievable journey for me so far and I'm celebrating a clean month now.
    Who is still in the game? If not... so what.. jump back on right now. New? welcome! Share your thoughts.
     
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  3. Junevalentino

    Junevalentino New Fapstronaut

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    Hard mode day 17, frustrated as hell, but not giving in, I need to do this for my marriage.
     
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  4. DonLorenzo

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    Still in, but cravings have been HUGE.... This addiction sucks badly. But 50 days now!
     
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  5. Yesodi

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    You can set up a counter by going to this link: http://pmo-tracker.appspot.com
    You will need to have a Google Account to set up your counter.

    Once you are signed in, follow the instructions to customize your counter. Once you are done, select the code you are given in the box near the bottom of the page. Follow this link to your signature: https://www.NoFap.com/forum/index.php?account/signature. Paste the code into your signature, click “Save Changes,” and you should see it under your forum posts.
     
  6. the_navigator

    the_navigator Fapstronaut

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    Having a really rough day. A lot of family stress, work uncertainty just all of it. Was out going to buy a few things then saw walking down the street a muscular guy in workout gear combined with my emotional state is really triggering me. I am doing everything in my power just to hang onto my reboot. I am 12 days in.
     
  7. sailorjoe

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    starting hard mode with you warriors, day 1 right now. having trouble getting past 1 week, goal is 30 days and then forever.

    do or do not, there is no try
     
  8. IamMike

    IamMike Fapstronaut

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    Guys! Hang in there... You're doing great. Don't fight it, just accept that it's no longer a part of you.

    Remember: You're no longer the kind of person who watches porn and masturbates
     
  9. Beginner Mode for me!
    Day 0
    I've learned to never give up in fighting this. It might feel like an uphill battle but it's winnable. Stay strong, stay productive, and stay calm.
     
  10. Letsgoandgetclean1

    Letsgoandgetclean1 Fapstronaut

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  11. I'm still in the game. Day 58 now. Almost had a wet dream again this morning, but I woke up right before that so it didn't happen. Last time I had a wet dream was exactly on day 30. It's almost day 60 so it's about time for another one. It's on regular schedule, like menstruation lol.
     
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  12. I wish I could go 60 Days :(
     
  13. I'm sure you can. It sounds corny but really you just have to believe in yourself. Remember that famous quote by Confucius - "he who says he can and he who says he can't are both usually right". Just commit to it. Even if it won't work out the first time as long as you try and not give up it will work out eventually 100%.
     
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  14. the_navigator

    the_navigator Fapstronaut

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    I completely agree, it's progress not perfection. You were able to consciously go without porn by your decision not because you were to busy or distracted. You made a conscious choice and did it. Try again and no matter what the outcome it's a success. Just one day at a time.
     
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  15. One day at a time :) thanks navigator! I will try my best. I just need to manage the triggers.
     
  16. yeah..you are probably right. I just need that belief that I can actually go weeks without PMO because honestly I have rarely been able to do that.
     
  17. the_navigator

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    Day 21 here, have some triggers but accepting them and talking to my sponsor. Even if you don't have a sponsor a close understanding friend is always good. Someone that you can call when you are really in danger of acting out. You don't have to be really blunt but ask about their day, kids, whatever. Anything to get yourself out of your own head for a bit. If they know what you are going through then they will just carry on the conversation.

    Remember we can do this in a vacuum or in a bubble. We needs support (like this site).
     
  18. IamMike

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    For those who started in the beginning of April... congrats you're almost half way! If not... Keep going... I'll still be walking this with you even from today.

    I'm on just over 5 weeks now and what's worked for me so far is simplicity and not thinking and stressing about it/technicalities too much. Quitting shouldn't be a science but rather a shifting of focus to something else. I've simply accepted (like really fundamentally accepted) that I'm not the kind of guy who PMs anymore, similar to how a vegan is simply not the kind of person who eats meat anymore. Really.. this sounds so simple and stupid but I want you to REALLY think about that for a second. Is there any other time in your life where you've made that paradigm shift. Are you no longer the type of guy who plays with children's toys like you did when you were 3? Good.. then you can simply outgrow PM the same way.
     
  19. digit

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    I'm in!
    Hard mode, no PM or O. Still making out with girlfriend.
    Currently on day 2
    Its all about mindset, keep your mind right and you can do anything. My longest streak was over 2 years, I relapsed because I stopped wanting it. If you want it it's yours!!!
     
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  20. digit

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    How's everyone doing? I've made it to day 6 and am still doing well. I think what IamMike said is true and is working really well for me so far. I've accepted that I'm not that guy anymore, anytime the temptation comes I remind myself that that's not me, change my thoughts, and do something else...something entirely different than what I was doing, it helps me shift my thoughts and my focus completely. Hope you guys are all doing well too. Keep up the good fight.
     

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