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90 days challenge, what's next?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by pernanui, Feb 16, 2018.

  1. pernanui

    pernanui Fapstronaut

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    Hello fapstronauts, this is my first post in the forum and I wanted to ask the more experienced guys here how do you know if you rebooted after your designated challenge or not?
    I also want to know how the process looks like in the long term years down the line to maximize all the benefits that come with nofap and to actually keep them, do you abandon porn and masturbation completely or what?

    Thank you in advance, and may the force be with you my friends!
     
  2. pernanui

    pernanui Fapstronaut

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  3. Fenix Rising

    Fenix Rising Fapstronaut

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    If you can masturbate without porn in normal frequency after rebooting, I'd say go for it, it's normal and probably healthy, but if you're a poor smug with long time compulsive MB addiction, I'd say abstain from MB and porn all together.

    I've done 90 days hard mode no sex/ no PMO twice before and after completing it, didn't know what to do next. I didn't have a GF/wife at the time, so after a few days I started lying to myself it's OK to get a quick release and then spiraled down the drain big time, both times. Relapses were much, much worse and longer than before (bingle MB for hours, days in days out for weeks to all kinds of sh...).

    So for me, MB after achieving 90 days of rebooting, is a no go anymore. MB leads me to compulsive MB and sooner or later to P. This time around, I'll try to reward myself with one night stand (ONS) or go to erotic massage (EM) to get a release and then begin new 3 months PMO period, trying to find regular gf and repeat ONS, EM if not successful in finding her, after achieving next three months streak. Maybe the problem is, we don't know what to do, when we achieve 90 days. I believe we have to make a plan how to behave after achieving our goal. I don't believe (nor want to) we could go "monk" mode for long and not feeling very miserable for it. We are sexual beings after all.
     
  4. pernanui

    pernanui Fapstronaut

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    I don't have any sexual dysfunctions but I'm all in for the confidence gains and all of the "superpowers", thanks for your reply man, I now know what to expect after the challenge and what my strategy will be, basically abstain after the 90days until I get a gf or something, also i wouldn't mind making the 90days streak a 180days
     

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