90 Days - Changes never imagined

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  1. thel00ker

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    Thanks man! that's good advice. It's true, I have to be realistic about this relationship. That's why I'm not calling her my girlfriend or anything. I'm just letting things be and letting my body decide instead of my thoughts.
    If things go bad, and I end up alone, I'll have to face the loneliness, and fight the porn addiction on my own.
    For now though, I'm trying to enjoy the relationship as much as I can. I feel like I'm very proud of who I am now but I'm still trying to improve myself every day. In case this relationship fails, I still have a lot to fight for, I believe my personal growth journey will be enough to keep me standing.

    Thank's again, that vas very useful advice =)
     
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  2. thel00ker

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    Thank you! I really doubt that I'm fully recovered, but I feel like good progress has been made.
     
  3. thel00ker

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    Thank you! glad I could help!
     
  4. Tonytone

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    This was beautifully written, thank you so much for sharing this. It really struck a chord within me. I needed this right now, as I was feeling in the dumps after a relapse yesterday. Only made it 6 days, but this one hurt me inside. Felt awful, sad and depressed. This brightened my day.
     
  5. thel00ker

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    Tony! I'm really glad it did. Relapses are a hard part of the process but you are already on the right track, I wish you the best in this new chance of building up your life, good luck!
     
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  6. Mr. Blah

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    Congratulations @thelooker. Well done! What an awesome and amazing story. Great writing too.I experienced some of your changes in my reboot too. But I relapsed after my 90 days. I just feel I should reboot again because I wanted to completely quit PMO.
     
  7. thel00ker

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    Thanks for the support!
    A 90 days reboot does wonders to your head, and all that progress is not lost. Just try again, i'm sure you'll reach that milestone easier.
     
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  8. sweetreg

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    epic first date :D
     
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  9. FenderKid

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    This is amazing. So happy for you dude, hope i get there.
     
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  10. Iamworthit

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    I'm so happy to read this and it is so inspiring, and it mirrors so many things that I experienced in my 90-day reboot. Stay strong. Don't make the same mistake I did in thinking that 90 days is a finish line. There is no finish line. Every day is a new day and a new challenge. All my love to you, my friend.
     
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  11. Souhail

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    I don't know what to say but bro that was the best and most touching thing i've ever read
    when i was reading i just felt that i was talking not you
    You have just say it all , i hope that i can achieve 90 days like you my biggest journey was 30 days
    I just don't know what to say you did motivated me a lot thank you so much and may god bless you
     
  12. John99099

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    Amazing! Its my first day here and I've come accross many posts today and yours is one of the most inspiring ones I must say! What've you've made of yourself is truly amazing! Good luck on your journey ahead and congrats on making it this far!
     
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  13. thel00ker

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    haha I know! chilling at 4:20 :D

    @FenderKid Thank you! I'm sure you will!

    @Iamworthit I'm glad it helped! With that mindset i'm sure you'll be able to reach that goal again, good luck!

    @soulhail Wow that means a lot! Thanks for the support! just keep going and focus on improving yourself as you reboot! i'm glad I could help, good luck man!

    @John99099 Thank you! i'm glad you liked it! just keep at it i'm sure that with enough days you'll make of yourself whatever you want! good luck!

    Thanks for the support everyone!
     
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  14. PM37

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    Congrats dude. Im on day 77 and have had literally the same experience. The biggest change for me was comparing myself to others and thinking I was garbage.

    What I've learnt that keeps me motivated is just to take a step back and awknowledge that things are finally changing and in a positive way. I found that if i dont talk to myself and just hope miracles are going to happen overnight, then my motivation comes to a halt.

    This is my 3rd really attempt at NoFap. And the first 2 times i tried, nothing happened. 3rd times the charm and im literally feeling like a god.

    Thanks for the motivation to keep going
     
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  15. Tonytone

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    That's awesome! Just a question, though; how long were your two previous streaks? Were you even close to 77?
     
  16. thel00ker

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    I’m glad man! Yes, even if things don’t only improve, the important thing is that they are changing. Wish you the best!
     
  17. thel00ker

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    Hey man! I had tons of reboots, mostly they lasted around 15 days. At the beggining of the year I reached 60 days but at the same time I was very stressed out by university and failed to keep it up.
    Then I had short streaks, 7-10 days and finally I started getting worried. I was scared that I would not be able to get rid of this condition of porn use. I remember having a kind of anxiety attack after thinking “what if you are a porn addict forever”.
    Finally I had a family vacation and finished going to class. I decided that the porn use would stay attached to my student years and I made the trip and took advantage of the lack of computers and technology.
    This helped me a lot, these days away from home helped me figure out who I really wanted to be and how I was going to become that person.
    When I came back I started working and made sure I stayed busy all day long. Then the days started piling up without much effort, I made sure I was always with someone else I enjoyed spending time with and working hard.

    That was more or less my journey. As the days went by my life started getting easier and more enjoyable even if there were hard times. Wish you the best! And make the effort it’s worth it!
     
  18. thel00ker

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    Owww I just realized that reply wasn’t for me, sorry about that
     
  19. Harry Maclad

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    The whole post, but espicially this paragraph inspired me a ton. Thanks for writing and sharing your story. After reading your success story I am extremely motivated to get as far as you! Major Congrats on your 90 days!
     
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  20. thel00ker

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    I'm glad it helped! it's worth the fight!
     
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