90+ days for the first time in my LIFE!

Wassup!!!! Famo!

I literally forgot that yesterday exactly around 12pm CAT I marked 90 days of no PM.
It’s been a crazy and exciting road, but I still feel like there is a longer distance to cover though. Just to wrap this up quickly. I know you guys are more interested in how I’m feeling.

well first of all, as a person I’m feeling very much alive, especially down there. On day 35(I think) I had sex with a link up of mine, it was good but not great, since then I decided to go on hard mode. So basically I’m 91 days of no PM and almost 60 days of No PMO.

down there I’m feel great, my sensitive senses are finally coming back in full force. To put it in simple terms, I could probably get an orgasm down there without even touching myself at this point(But I won’t dare try).

I feel like I’m finally ready to go back to having sex. And at this point I’m still feeling the same way I felt when I was on day 1, no temptations whatsoever to view any porn content. I have lost total interest and I pray it stays that way.

my focus levels are t exactly 100% though, I feel like I just need to apply myself in my stuff rather than wait for Nofap to save me, lol. But my body feels extremely amazing, I do not feel so weak in the mornings anymore and I’ve gained a lot of energy.

I am able to finally just fall asleep without taking anything, and I do not stress much or overthink things anymore.

I’m more committed into my relationship rather than chasing an intending satisfaction through other women.

one important thing nice noticed is that since I’ve stopped fappin, I’ve grown a bit shy and do not like eye content the way I used to my whole life, for some reason. I’m honestly hoping this stops very soon. I’ve been practising on random people (especially at work) to at least get back that part of myself, but slowly but surely.

I honestly feel like the only major change I have is penis sensitivity and good blood flow for erections, even though they aren’t 100% yet. But using condoms will not feel like a pain in the ass anymore. ED is definitely out the window at this point. But there is a long road to travel before we get to the final destination and I’m definitely staying on it.

I feel like I’m going to finally get all the benefits I need on the 6th month. I am only going to be doing my next update on day 180 of no PM May the grace of the lord be with all of us in this beautiful journey of mental freedom.
 
Congratulations!!! Im a week away from my 90 days. (My second round)

A word of advice: Porno will never be your friend. Never and ever! Make sure your head understands it. There's no going back. Avoid temptations, quick peaks, or any excuses to look at. Emotional reasons, stress reasons, self-testing yourself. Otherwise, it's super easy to get back to old habits. That water (porn) is poison. Every time you drink, your body will accumulate those toxins again and all of the side effects will come back.

Anyways, I just needed to mention.

GREAT JOB MAN! 90 days is a big accomplishment, are you planning any celebration? Im planning to take my family to a fancy restaurant on my day 90. It's something to celebrate. It's very hard to get to 90.
 
I'm at Day 0, but if there's a will, there's a way. I started the challenge of 7 days no fapping. After I complete this one, I go to 30 days and so on. I know, easier said than done, but it is so important to me in my life right now, you can't imagine. Well, maybe you can, you all know how destructive PMO is, it literally ruins your life from the get go. It's now or never for me, I will do everything I can to stop.
 
I'm at Day 0, but if there's a will, there's a way. I started the challenge of 7 days no fapping. After I complete this one, I go to 30 days and so on. I know, easier said than done, but it is so important to me in my life right now, you can't imagine. Well, maybe you can, you all know how destructive PMO is, it literally ruins your life from the get go. It's now or never for me, I will do everything I can to stop.

I have been on day zero more than 1000 times. But also, I have made long strikes many times. This is the 2nd time I've been able to reach 84 days. My longest was 120 days. How did I do it? There's always going to be some excuse to fap. Your head will always try to trick you. Don't listen to it, instead listen to your heart. Literally! Be strong. Endure the withdraws. Have self-control. Know your reasons. Figure out what you want for your future. Think about everyone around you. All the consequences FAP brings to relationships. Spouses, kids, family, friends, work, and peace of mind. When was the last time you could go on a vacation and you could really enjoy it? Just think about it!
Have a great day!
 
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Hearty Congrats for the 90 days mark. The confidence emanating from your post after the 90 days mark is profoundly inspirational.

I would like to enquire, whether have you had any edging in the span of 90 days or was it in a monk or hard mode. If so what made you focused throughout the journey. When the PMO thoughts surfaces, what made you distracted away from it?

Thanks in advance.
 
Hearty Congrats for the 90 days mark. The confidence emanating from your post after the 90 days mark is profoundly inspirational.

I would like to enquire, whether have you had any edging in the span of 90 days or was it in a monk or hard mode. If so what made you focused throughout the journey. When the PMO thoughts surfaces, what made you distracted away from it?

Thanks in advance.
Howzit my guy. I hope you good.

Funny enough I’ve never had any urge for PM. I’ve been feeling the same way since day one which is very weird but I can’t complain. For the first time I honestly feel like I just don’t want porn and I go days without it crossing my mind. The only problem is social media and the half naked women who pop up, I never feel any urges however, I just hate seeing anything close to porn, it makes me feel like I’ve failed even though I closed it down immediately. Therefore I deleted apps like instagram to avoid such.

I feel like what has saved me more than anything is my job. It requires so much from me to the point where it is all I think about sometimes. And the exhaustion I feel on a daily basis after work just makes things much more easier as well.

I feel the exact same way I felt when I quit cigarettes. I’ve finally acknowledged the negative effect porn had on me to a point where I despise it. And the reason I started was due to the ED I had a couple of months ago trying to have sex with this other woman, which is something that has never happened to me, so it really put me on panic mode to quit porn as soon as possible. I feel like I’m too young to be having such sexual problems with my partners and this is me doing something about it. Hope this helps.
 
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